My best friend is gonna married in a couple months and she just have the feeling that her boyfriend was married before and have a kid (she got some pictures about it) we already call to the courthouses around the areas where he used to live but we didnt get any luck, and also she pay to US search (wich only told her information about the state where he is resident only), but still, that dont help us at all what can we do now?
2007-01-12 06:40:46 · 18 answers · asked by gismad 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
confront the guy with the pictures she has. Tell him that she needs to know the truth, now, before the marriage. Inform this man that if there will be any and all unexpected surprises she will use this as grounds for annulment/divorce.
The most important thing is this. if they truly love each other, why would he lie, and if he has been married before with a child, why would she care? Obviously something is wrong with this relationship.
2007-01-12 06:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and that i planned our first new child till now marriage and suggestion... why, reason we've been in love and needed to start a kin. He proposed collectively as i replaced into pregnant, and we married whilst she replaced right into a million. We had yet another daughter 3 years later... nonetheless married with 2 suitable little ladies ?
2016-10-07 01:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by lashbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Him for christ sakes the women is going to marry this guy and thinks he is a liar and a cheater and a deadbeat dad
Good Luck
2007-01-12 06:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by tacoma_fast_ball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should not get married. (A) She should ask him straight up. (B) and finally she should learn to be only in relationships where trust is the main ingrediant, right up there with communication. (C.)
Geez. This poor guy has no idea she's snooping, does he? And he's about to committ his life to her? Nice.
2007-01-12 06:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most counties you can do an online search you may use. I've found out all sorts of interesting things abotu people.
2007-01-12 06:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by Betsy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She hasn't asked him? Sounds like a less than solid foundation to enter into a lifetime commitment with.
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2007-01-12 06:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't trust his word, they need to call off the wedding.
IOne way to find out is to call one of his relatives. Most will sing like a bird when they're asked directly.
2007-01-12 06:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by Abby Road 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea if he kept that secret id be a little iffy on getting married to someone, i could only imagine what other stuff he has kept secret. you could always contact a private investigator they could find that out in like 30 seconds, plus i believe that marriage and divorce are both public records. i bet you could find that out online. google his as-s
2007-01-12 06:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a private investigator, and ask them to find out . If it's important forher, spending about $200 would be worth it.
2007-01-12 06:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by slickbabe_model_03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if he was married before???? She has him now!!! and as for the other child he obviously doesn't see him so whats the problem???? Females today need to stop worrying about the past and aim for a better future!!!!!!
2007-01-12 06:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋