I saw my ex and his wife pics on Friendster a while ago. I can't believe this is the same person who cheated and lied to me saying he's not married when he already was, and i continued seeing him after we broke up because i still loved him- at that time. When i found out, i severed all ties with him.
His wife doesn't know that evil side of him, and i really feel like spilling the beans and telling her that her husband is not what he seems. But i remembered that he told her bad things abt me and no way she will ever believe me. Anyway, its none of my business.
My qn is:
Would you seek revenge and tell her what he did or move on? I don't want to sound like a bad person, i just wanna know what you would do, if faced with this situation! Hav fun answering the question!!!
2007-01-12 06:40:45 · 37 answers · asked by NOTurBFF!! 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
thks all for your kind opinions.
fyi i have already moved on and found a better man who appreciates me. Thank God.
2007-01-12 15:31:28 · update #1
Its too bad he was such a dick to cheat on you, but its not your problem anymore. Move on, why waste the effort on someone like that anyway. She probably wouldn't believe you anyway and he would cover it up saying you were a psycho ex-girlfriend.
He is a looser....move on.
2007-01-12 06:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Michael O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you truly did sever all ties like you said you did then move, if he truly is that bad a person the wife will find out eventually. Besides what have you gained by telling her - nothing and all you've done is make her unhappy.
2007-01-12 06:45:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would really WANT to seek revenge, but the reality is that, if you do, you'll probably only make a bad situation worse. Best to just move on. If he stays true to character, she'll find out soon enough anyway.
2007-01-12 06:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by passin thru 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone. At this point she's not in the dark about him she's tolerating his behavior. Looks like she's determined to learn the hard way. Consider yourself luck and move on because you're a fool too if you continue a relationship with him.
2007-01-12 06:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by CALAVA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to just be the bigger person and move on. He'll get what he deserves sooner or later. I was in a similar situation w/my ex wife. Take the high road. Lots of luck!
2007-01-12 06:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by The Iceman Cometh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I don't think she would believe you. Why waste your time. Move on life is just to short to worry over small things like this. You ended things when you found them out, and who told you? You found them out on your own, as she will one day. I just feel it's not your business, so close the book now.
2007-01-12 06:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge sounds good until you do it, and reap the karma that comes from "getting even" with someone. Eventually it will happen to you, and you have to place yourself in the shoes of the other person.
I wouldn't do it. It isn't worth it, let her deal with her hubby on her own. Chances are she already knows something isn't right and she is choosing to continue her marriage as she sees fit. It isn't your business anymore.
2007-01-12 06:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Buttercup - VP Bamma Fan Club 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on, I know revenge seems like a good idea now, but I think in the long run you'll just regret.
2007-01-12 06:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Bog woppit. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
although revenge may feel good for a moment, you will hate yourself for hurting his wife. She didn't do anything wrong, and while I agree she needs to know, I don't think doing it to hurt him is the right reason. I would just try to move on, but you aren't me, and I wish you luck with this decision.
2007-01-12 06:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by sircbstp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't seek revenge. She most likely won't believe you anyway. It's best to let her find out on her own. She may already know what kind of man he is but insists on holding on to him anyway.
2007-01-12 06:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by Nico 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋