To all the men out there...would you date a woman if you knew she had bad credit,,or ike say you worked at a store, and you worked at that store, and the woman you like was your customer and you found out she had some past accounts that went delinquent would that give you second thoughts on dating her or pursuing her
2007-01-12 06:24:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2007-01-12 06:26:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jimmy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what in the hell does bad credit have to do with LOVING someone? See what this world is coming to.There are many ways a person can get bad credit. When it comes down to a person having good or bad credit, that other people will not socialize with them, this is the beginning of the book 1984.
What does the other book say, you will not be able to buy or sell without the mark of the beast. They are brainwashing people so that folks can act out the script....IT"S WORKING
A person could have gotten sick and couldn't work, or got layed off, and it's a bunch of crap that companies only lay off the people that are worthless. Is it helping society to keep people from jobs just because their credit is bad or they are in collection? NO...The companies that do this are creating criminals. People have to eat and take care of their families. We all know sh** happens. And two wrongs don't make a right.
2007-01-12 14:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have good reasons to be delinquent on bills. What if she or someone in her family was out of commission due to a medical problem? Now she's better and is making a financial comeback, for example.
Look at the whole person, not just the credit score.
2007-01-12 14:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by VirtualElvis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of people out there that have credit issues, that does not make them bad people. I do recommend, that before you get married to someone that you both work together to clear up all accounts that you owe money on. It is best to start out your married life without debt. Debt only causes extra stress in relationships, and any and all debt should be entered into cautiously, even if you are buying a house. Start saving $ early and do so often.
James
2007-01-12 14:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by James 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the circumstances, like if you guys have a connection between yas. If she is a good looking nice girl than it should not matter. small things as materialistic as credit should not matter
2007-01-12 14:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Cornelius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on how serious I wanted to pursue the relationship. If you're talking about long term or possibly marriage, I would not be interested. Most would say this is shallow of me,but marriage or even long term relationships are nourished with happy moments that are memorable and special. Some of these memorable moments can be pursuing college,traveling to beautiful places,having children or ven more common is the purchase of a home. When you look at all of these things, you have to admit that it takes money or good credit,responsibility and most of all--stability to pusue these dreams. Failing to pay on your debts is a reflection of financial irresponsibility, lacks concern about future financial goals or ventures and most significantly, compromises all of these for plain selfishness. It tells me the person lives in the now. I think people who default on their debts are compulsive and don't think about the future. They live in the now. Just like when they browse through the stores, this is how they live their lives. There's no intent on pursuing anything particular. Just react on impulse and pay the consequence later. If you just wanted a friendship or even one with privileges, then go ahead, but be careful. You already have some insight on what her finacial life is like. Howver, if you want to settle down with someone special and enjoy great times with them, you want them to contribute to the realtionship just as much as you do, then start looking in another aisle for something of better quality, for something that could enhance your life not be a finacial obstacle course for you. The important thing is that you are not in love with this person right now. You're just interested, but you noticed something that made your radar beep. For good reason. It has nothing to do with love. You are loking at someone who you're interested in, but asking yourself if you should invest feelings with someone who has a pattern of not paying back the people she owes. I think it's a valid observation. Listen to your radar. Relationships can be pursued without financial prejudices, but if those observationa are valid,and we decided to make our pursuit anyway,what does that mean for the "quality" of the relationship? I predict that the couple may be more likely to experience difficulties in purchasing a home,credit cards with good rates for emergencies, and high rates at the dealerships when one of them needs a car.
2007-01-12 14:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by vince 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be very cautious about a relationship. I've had troubles myself and fought my way back out of them and if she appeared to be trying to make her situation improve and become more stable I would be very encouraging. If she seemed not to care about it I really think I would move on.
2007-01-12 14:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would her credit matter? You're trying to date her, not give her a line of credit.
2007-01-12 14:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by ஐ♥Gin♥ஐ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not really. A criminal record might affect things, but not a credit history!
2007-01-12 14:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by Tony M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Bad credit is a symptom of a deep character flaw--irresponsibility. Irresponsible people tend to be irresponsible in many parts of their life.
2007-01-12 14:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
OK, Yell at me for answering, as I am a woman, but stay away...men can be stupid that way....she'll drag you down, boy!
2007-01-12 14:27:44 · answer #11 · answered by j9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋