2007-01-12 06:20:49 · 19 answers · asked by Bexie G 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Well, if the girls can't control themselves, the boys have no chance. I suppose it's a battle between nature and the law.
2007-01-12 06:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Make Sure You Use Protection. If You Dont. Both Of You Need To Own Up To The Outcome. If I Knew My 16 Daughter Or Son Was Online Asking A Stupid Question Like This They Would Be Grounded FOREVER!!! Think Before You Do It. Your Only 16 And You Will Forget About This Guy By The Time Your 19-23 And Having "Serious Relationships". Personally I Think You Should Wait!!
2007-01-12 06:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Scooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to have an adult behavior early. This behavior of sex is discrete (not to confused with discreet). It is separate. The danger is confusing this sex with other issues, such as loyalty, love and betrayal. At your age these issues can become confused or combined by unhappy events. The impression it makes on you can last your whole life. If you wait 2 more years you are better able to separate this from the times you are hurt.
So if you are hurt (most people your age will be hurt), it will not harm your adult relationships as deeply. This is why it is better to wait for a while. You are protecting you as a grown up. You need to look out for you when you are a grown up!
2007-01-12 06:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ron H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you shouldn't be in any rush to have sex. Just because you are in love doesn't mean you have to have sex.
Having sex is shares part of yourself with your partner. Don't get me wrong it is an amazing experience to be that emotionally connected with someone, but it was very scary. I was 19 before i had sex for the first time and i thought i was emotionally ready for it, but i wasn't.
It is a big step sharing your first time with someone, and it shows that your relationship means a lot to you. But if you're under 16, you're still got your entire life ahead of you. I'm only 20 and i can tell you you will have to deal with a lot before you reach 18, don't let the pressure of feeling you have to have sex be one of them.
My advise would be to wait, if you are in as much love as you think then neither of you will mind waiting, you will enjoy just being with each other, doing everyday things with each other.
Hope that helps.
2007-01-12 06:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Iccle bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a responsible person under the age of 16 then the question becomes, do you have the maturity to resposibly make such a descion? if you are not responsible or mature for your age it is very likely that you will make a mistake and get pregnant, which will essentially ruin your life regarding education. a muture individual would be able to reasonably make this descion on their own. my advice: wait till you are older and have more knowledge of the dangers of sex, I don't know how old you are but I would hate to see you pregnant at the age of 14 or whatever. wait a few years to get more mature and knowledgeable then ask yourself this question again? sex is a very serious act to engage in for young teens, and is a very serious step to take in any relationship regardless of age. please be responsible and safe when you make your choice
2007-01-12 06:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by go away 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look love.... its your body and you can do whatever you want with it. but... 16 is a bit young though. how long for you is a while... i mean... how long have you been together. i plan on staying a virgin until im married.... for me its something a want to give to my husband... kinda like a gift. im 16 as well... have you talked to him about it. that would be a good place to start.
but serously... think about waiting a little longer. but if you decide to do this... make sure you use protection.
think of it this way. if you were to get pregnant... would he still be there for you... even if you werent pregnant... would he still be there in a few years... what are the chances of him still being with you in a year or so.
you probably dont want to hear this... but every young girl thinks their in love. its because were naive. i think that if you do this... you will regret. even if you do end up with him..... you know.... marrying him.... you may wish that you had waited. like i said... its your body... but this is my opinion... you should wait.
2007-01-12 06:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kate 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait! You will have many loves. Men don't like a woman who sleeps around. And if you do decide to have sex, make sure you have protection. A condom is not going to prevent pregnancy, so go to planned parenthood and get birth control pills. Pregnant and 16 just doesn't work. Good luck.
2007-01-12 06:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by hazeleyedbeauty1967 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what anyone here says you will do what you want to do, that's the nature of being young. If you decide to go ahead then remember to take precautions not just against pregnancy but those awful STIs out there. Go along to your nearest young persons clinic and speak to someone there, they won't judge you but will be able to give you some sound advice. Don't worry about what they will think of you, they've seen it all before, I know I used to do it.
2007-01-12 06:54:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can make that decision for u. If u r gonna do it, u'll do it.
But if u do, please use protection! And that doesn't just mean going on the pill to prevent pregnancy, it also means DEFINATELY use condoms. Sexually transmitted dieseases are at an all time high now & u certainly don't want one of them! So just please be careful.
Good luck in your decision.
2007-01-12 06:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too young. You'll be in love a dozen times before you graduate high school I'd guess.
2007-01-12 06:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by Sean 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋