ive known this girl for about a year and a bit on the net, i grew really close to her, and it has just fizzled out, i thought she liked me from what she used to say to..i had a few arguments with her though because of my possessivness, and im sorry for that, i used to sulk to her and threaten to end it and shed always come back to me. well now its like shes not bothered and the other day she came online and said, i take it that its over then..and i said guess so, shes 20 and from canada, im 29 from the uk..im findin it hard to let go i really liked her, she even has the physicall features i like, pale, white and chubby with cute face, a while ago she even said she was going to come to uk to see me..now it seems all thats out the window, were from two total different worlds she has friends, a life job, lots of guy friends to cos i seen em on myspace..and im here lonely with no friends strugglin with psychological problems, but she dont no that much, im really finding it hard to let go
2007-01-12 06:14:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
she is someone i really did love an want
2007-01-12 06:16:44 · update #1
You cannot really know if you love someone you have never met. In any case, if she doesn't return the feelings, you really do need to let go and move on, as difficult as that might be. It is part of life. Most of us have experienced unrequited love at one time or another. There will be someone else, so begin the search. It might help if you make an effort to get out more with real people and not depend totally on Internet friendships to get what you want out of life. Try to develop several friendships and give them all time to grow and mature and see what happens. Best of luck.
2007-01-12 06:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but find a real girlfriend.
For the record, it's really creepy when a guy on the internet is possessive; you don't know her. She could be a 50 year old man, or a 12 year old, MySpace or not.
You admit that you're lonely and have psychological problems. Take some time to deal with them. Consider professional help. Make some real-life friends where you live, whether it's through work, school, a bar, hobbies-anywhere.
2007-01-12 06:27:53 · answer #2 · answered by pinwheelbandit 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you need help with your psychological problems, you should ask for help. Also, you need to get off the computer and find friends in the "real" world. It's fine to meet people online, but you still need to continue contact with people in person. The internet is full of fantasy. You don't know the girl no matter whether you've been in contact for over a year. Start fresh, and look next door, down the street, or a few miles away.
2007-01-12 06:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by clarity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait wait wait, you 2 are in college? and also you both visit diverse faculties, so that you 2 stay far faraway from one yet another. Yeah i have stated earlier that lengthy distance relationships are not truly a good suggestion. in reality they don't artwork because sure you 2 received't bodily be jointly that is a key section in a relationship. Oh yeah there'll be the information of the different individual has a probability to be dishonest on you. nicely my suggestion to you is that you are able to both move faculties and be consisting of her, or in simple terms drop her and seem for romance community. BD
2016-11-23 14:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick yourself up off the chair, go out, meet some real people.
Life is too short to spend it being possessive of someone who is only a virtual reality. Arguments on-line? Ridiculous, senseless, possibly even sick.
She has real friends, don't you think that it's time for you to go out and meet some of your own?
I'm sorry if you're having so much trouble dealing with this--but what more could you have expected?
2007-01-12 06:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is tough, especially when is online. The reality is that long distance relationships do not work, with time the love fades away. If she's changed and does not seem interested anymore she has already found somebody there. It's tough, but you must get over it, and it's just part of life, to have loved, and lost.
2007-01-12 06:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Frank the tank 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you need some serious help. How can you be in love w/ someone you never met. Sounds like you should just pony up some more money for another porn site and fall in love again.
2007-01-12 06:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of fish in the sea. You can't MAKE someone love you like in the movies. Move on, someone better will come along that will love you for you. She isn't the only female in the world.
2007-01-12 06:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by j9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-12 06:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by vek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you love someone you never met in person?
2007-01-12 06:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Virgo27 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋