I've tried to convince them
2007-01-12 06:02:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
CAn you do things without your friends? If your friends do not wish to join any school clubs, it doesn't mean you can't. You should join whatever makes you feel comfortable. Maybe if you join a few and your friends see what you do and how much fun you have, it just might give them the notion to join as well. Join the clubs my dear and enjoy high school while it lasts. Clubs in school are fun and you get to make new friends as well. Good luck to you.
2007-01-12 06:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That nervous feeling goes away quite quickly once you start doing the thing that is making you nervous. You don't need to convince your friends, you just need to do what you want to do. After you join and start talking about having a great time in your clubs, then they might want to join you.
2007-01-12 06:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then let go and be the leader. Your friends may follow you. Dependence on your friends for advice and friendship is important. But you want to reduce the social risk, this could be viewed as weakness, unless you are in a dangerous school.
You will be the decision maker in your life. That person in the mirror is making all the decisions. Get some experience then!
2007-01-12 06:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ron H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you have more friends?
If so, What harm is it for you to make new ones in the clubs in school?
It is apart of emotional and personal growth to go out and meet new people. Go, have fun. if your existing friends got a problem with it, do not bother with them anymore, they are not your true blue friends.
2007-01-12 06:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that matters is that you become and develop who you feel you are and not how your friends want to see you. So by all means join the clubs and anything else you wish to do and if your friends accept it then there your friends if they think your weird for it then forget them. Why should you be anyone else but who you want yourself to be. Friends aren't worth it unless they accept who you really are.
2007-01-12 06:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by samsview20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever YOU want to do. If they don't follow, don't worry. You will make friends in the clubs and then you'll have more friends, two sets.
2007-01-12 06:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of time students just join clubs cuz they feel it gives them recognition,or they could be seen in a different light because they are a member,don"t worry bout your friends,if a club appeals to you,or you can benefit from it,join it. borgpad@yahoo.com
2007-01-12 06:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by borgpad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on your own. You will, most definitely, meet new friends to add to your old group. Don't rob yourself of this experience!
2007-01-12 06:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by StephanieM. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Standing up for who you are and what you like for yourself, is a measure of growth.
2007-01-12 06:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋