I'm friends with this guy who suposedly has a crush on me. His name is Dan and we are like completely different. So far 2 of his friends have told me ( but the might have been joking around) and 3 of my friends have told me. I dont know who to believe. He has not told me though, but then i dont want to ask him because if he does not that would be wierd. But i really want to know We have like one class together. how could he like me when he does not even know me. In that one class we like sit right by each other though. People say i'm like the only girl who he talks to but i did not know that. until like a few days ago. I mean what am i suposed to do, like not talk to him when he sits right by me. Now its like weird being by him. We are like two totally different people. I'm black, a skater punk, smart, and simi -popular i guess. He is white, tall, annoying, and completely different from me. what should i do. Its like when you think of couples we would never come to your mind.
2007-01-12 05:48:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be yourself
2007-01-12 05:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're not offended by this, but you sound very young. If I were you, I'd just ignore what anyone says, or at least tell them you're not into gossip, and if the guy wanted to talk to you, he has a mouth of his own, right? Then, just let things take their natural course.
2007-01-12 05:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well yu are like totally hot so being a guy he would be flattered to talk to you. you never know till you try, all young white men want a black chic
2007-01-12 05:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by manfromblueriver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haveing someone that likes to talk to you should be cool not making you feel weard .it is good for you to have many friends in differant areas of interest .this person is going to show you a part of yourself this is a opertuntinty dont blow it and dont make any more out of it then what it is and well be or not be ..
2007-01-12 05:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ONce you go black.... but seriously what is the problem? you either want the guy or you don't you are not shy and are semi attracted to him so just ask him straight out if he wants to go out. it will save a lot of grief.
2007-01-12 05:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well like wait until he tells you he likes you. You don't want to ask him like wouldn't that be rude...like like like....sorry it just bugs me when someone cannot make a sentence with out using the word "like" all through it. It doesn't make sense. Now..for my real answer....If he likes you he will let you know so just relax. Good Luck
2007-01-12 05:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by Patty D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the relax part.. but if you dont like him.. what does it matter.. if you do like him.. just ask him if he wants to go grab a bite to eat sometime.. or what you doing after class want to i dont know do something.. if he says no.. then well that would suck.. and i would talk to his friends and be like okay ...what the hell
2007-01-12 05:53:17 · answer #7 · answered by sm81206 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yall shouldn't care about what others think, as long as yall work out fine.
2007-01-12 05:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have all the choices you want. it is just that i'd prefer you with the men who does not have sexual relations with animals. if you found a survivor, make up your choice and marry.
2007-01-12 05:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by iituakuttiq 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LoL - simply, remain friends. A crush is basically just lust unsated.
2007-01-12 05:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
attraction can be based on any number of superficial qualities, appearance and first impressions.
2007-01-12 05:57:01 · answer #11 · answered by entropicflux 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋