okay, i gotta friend who is really insecure and really doesnt have a defined style or attitude of her own. We've been hanging out more often and now she's starting to act like me, bluntly and shamelessly, and starting to like things i like and trying to one up me on being me? I guess trying to be arrogant about it, is what i'nm trying to say. For example, i was making a comment on a celeb crush ive been a fan of for a long time and she's just started noticing him because of me. I made a silly comment on how i would eat a picture of him we were looking at, and then she says "well i dont know if i'd do that, but i'd eat him". *****. thats what i meant. but she said it more bluntly, like she thought i was retarded
she's starting to wear the clothes i wear and wanting to dye her hair the colour i get it, and her boyfriend (a good friend of mine) is starting to call her out on it, but she insists she isnt.
I'm pretty angry about it.
should i do something about it?
or just let it go?
2007-01-12 05:46:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ps. i'm not a guy
ignore the name peas
not my accoutn =/
2007-01-12 05:47:29 · update #1
flattery is a good thing until it is taken to a psychotic level
2007-01-12 05:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Let It GO.
She Obviously Looks Up To You And You Should Be Flattered.
But Dont Get Upset Just Because Somebody Is Trying To Find Themself Through You. God......High School.....Im Glad Its Over.
Just Be Yourself And Eventually She Will Too!
2007-01-12 05:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Scooter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 21:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like shes idolizing you in a way...I mean yes it might have been flattering to you in her eyes...but your obviously upset about this...I'd tell her that! Make it know that you and her are two different people and you would appreciate if she didnt try to emulate you so much...
Dont be too harsh about it though...just be blunt enough to get your point across :) good luck
2007-01-12 05:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by icingonthekake99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haveing a friend is hard sometimes if you dont like being around her then find other things to do without her .you are not a victum here .stop triping on this you are being honored by what she is doing .as for the eat comment she has no class
2007-01-12 05:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see the movie, Single White Female with Bridgette Fonda? Check it out.
2007-01-12 05:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start acting like her! Not the before her, but the new her. Start one uping the new her, you know the one that wants to be you. That way when you are now cooler than her, you will really just be way cooler than the old you.
2007-01-12 05:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the idiot to get lost,You don't need friends like that.Do it sooner rather than later before it get,s to the single white female stage!!
2007-01-12 05:53:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you mentioned she's insecure and probably admires you for not being that way. i wouldn't get mad at it rather be proud that someone thinks that highly of you. it might even just be her way of exploring who she really is...try to put yourself in her shoes for a minute. she probably is trying (in her own way) to achieve your encouragement and support. try to be more compassionate with her and try to find small ways to help her veer off in her own direction.
2007-01-12 05:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by kestrelk8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say let it go...she admires you - be proud of that. she should eventually grow up and find herself...we hope!
2007-01-12 06:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋