I think if a child is involved it would be possible even without my parents approval but I'm really not sure what to do. Could anyone help me?
2007-01-12 05:45:14 · 31 answers · asked by x0baybiimaggie0x 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no it is illegal...and if there is a child involved he can go to jail, if you parents press charges of statuatory rape. don't do it.
2007-01-12 05:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by be calm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statatory rape and child abuse charges could be brought against your "boyfriend" by your parents. Not only has he taken away your childhood, but you will now be a child with a child to take care of. Your "boyfriend" is not what he seems. Why would a 23 year old man be interested in a 14 year old girl? His interest at his age should be very different than yours,with you being so young. You have sooooo much to experience still, school dances, graduations, hanging out with your girl friends at the mall or movies. You are cutting yourself short!!!!!!!!!!! No "boyfriend" is worth it. If he was a real man he wouldn't have gotten involved with you in the first place.
2007-01-12 13:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by redheaded goddess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could move in together, but did you know that in your situation, your boyfriend could be charged for rape! So try to keep quiet about it because without your boyfriend being there you could be in serious trouble! You should get put the baby up for adoption and put that guy in jail. Seriously I think that that is pretty sick. Girls our age may be physically ready to have a baby, but not mentally. In the future instead of going to the mall and hanging w/h yor friends you'll be at home changing dipers. You won't get the education you need cause all the money will go forth to your baby. You still have a life to live and a future to hold on to. Will your boyfriend leave you with the baby. You have too much to live for, you should of thought about what you were doing. Plus you will have people talking. I don't think you should move in because you both will get in serious trouble. Do what is right with your life befor it will be too late, because aparently your boyfriend has already screwed up his. This isn't a game it is serious, and your parents should be more involved, because it helps. Be smart Don't do it!
2007-01-12 16:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Kimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a 14 yr old child doing having sex, let alone with a 23 manboy! And you want to move in with him, perhaps have a child so he wont go to jail? Ur not making smart choices, this is one time u really should listen to adults. U will ruin ur life...ur only 14 :(
I would be careful if i were u, he can go to jail and he would have to be put on a sex offenders list his whole life......not a great start for a relationship.
2007-01-12 14:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by Hi my name is... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say bye bye to your sick boyfriend, he is guilty of statutory rape and will be going to jail. You, you need to get into counselling. What are you doing messing around with a man that is that much older than you?
Your child's father is a pedophile and sick. What does a 23 year old think about having sex with a child? GROSS! I hope he rots in jail. IF your parents approve of this relationship they should be charged with child endangerment.
2007-01-12 13:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! First of all, you are a minor - he is an adult - if you're pregnant then he has commited 'staturoy rape' and he needs to go to jail. The only time you will be free of your parent's approval is after you turn 18. Put the jerk in jail, get an abortion and concentrate on your education.
2007-01-12 15:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't even legal for him to be sleeping with you in the first place! I'm sure your parents aren't aware whats going on because if they were they would prolly press charges and send him to jail for rape. There's no way that you can live with this man without your parents approval. If your parents know about this man then telling them that your pregnant shouldn't be as hard but they prolly aren't going to take it well!
2007-01-12 13:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the heck r u doing with a 23 year old? He can go to jail 4 that.
2007-01-13 13:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by Brand.New 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey this is called statutory rape. Even if you were concenting. The legal age of concent in the state I live in is 16. Your parents need to be involved in a serious way.
The last thing in the world you need to do is move in with this man. Please take care of yourself and that baby.
This breaks my heart.
2007-01-12 14:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by Wealth of useless information 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, he could go to jail for having sex with you in the first place. What are you doing with a 23 year old guy anyways????
2007-01-12 13:49:59 · answer #10 · answered by finding_my_dream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should do sum research on it and see because i was 16 and pregnant and my boyfriend was 18 and it still was illegal fa him to be having sex with me but that where emancipation comes in but i do belive u have to either be 16,parents emancipat u or u are expecting a baby bt im not sure
2007-01-12 13:56:51 · answer #11 · answered by sha200805 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋