I'VE BEEN SEEING THIS GUY FOR ALMOST A YEAR AND THOUGHT THAT THINGS WERE GOING REALLY WELL (OK, AS GOOD AS THEY CAN BE FOR A SIDE THING), THEN A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO HE TELLS ME HE DOESN'T WANT TO SEE ME ANYMORE BECAUSE HE NEEDS TO WORK ON HIS MARRIAGE.....
2007-01-12 05:42:51 · 18 answers · asked by sweetbabykitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok.......maybe he was just a little stressed and needed a little time to sort things out. I have to ask,......was the sex really good??? or REALLY FRICKEN GOOD?? Cuz if it was the later,....I think you should give him a little space,....and see if he decides to start seeing you again anyway. Just dont push him. Then if things get back the the way they were ( REALLY FRICKEN GOOD),......then just smile and enjoy.......
2007-01-15 08:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Newman 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well the excitement of the affair is over and the sex isn't that great anymore. You were a side thing anyway, so now go out and find another married man. Should be easy for a immoral woman to go on Craigs List and offer it up. Oh yea, HO
2007-01-12 06:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you should have never started messing with a married man, he loves his wife and wants to work it out with her. You were just a little extra flavor on the side. It means find someone of your own, not someone elses man.
2007-01-12 05:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has decided to take his marriage seriously, although the fact that he had a fling means he does not take his relationships seriously to begin with. Move on because even if he were to leave his wife for you, he would probably end up cheating on you too.
2007-01-12 05:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Kim B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh....it means he wants to work on his marriage. Let him go! It's not worth it, girl, trust me! Find a single man....married men will come with nothing but problems for you in the end! And, they almost never leave their wives so don't count on that one!
2007-01-12 05:48:35 · answer #5 · answered by Rach 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have no respect for a woman that would knowingly sleep with a married man. Leave him alone especially if they have children maybe he is ready to grow up and start being a man.
2007-01-12 05:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by tammy c 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's what you get for cheating. Adultery by any other name is just as foolish and wicked.
I can't believe you ask this question as if you were having a legitimate and above-board relationship with a single/unattached man.
Shame! Shame! Shame!
2007-01-12 05:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You must be very young and immature to let him fool you into believing in him. Don't forget that the devil is also very charming. The reason Scriptures were given to us is to insure our happiness, joy and peace, so, it is best if you follow God's laws and believe in God rather than placing all your faith in a man. Mmm
2007-01-12 17:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt wnana see you anymore for whtever reason hes got. its not fun but, just move on - it will only hurt for quite a while but once ur over him ull realize that the best thing he could've ever done to you and if ever hes workin on marriage, then for his wife and( if) kids
2007-01-12 06:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by rizzag19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be any clearer. he wants to stop being a complete scum of the earth, either because he's afraid of losing his wife (who's more important to him than you) or because he actually feels guilty.
You need to get a life!
Try volunteering at an animal shelter or habitat for humanity to start thinking of others and not your own selfish and petty whims!
2007-01-12 06:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋