Just yesterday I broke up with my boyfriend because i am Bi, I had my first experience with a female 1 week ago and loved it. So I felt bad because i was in a relationship and i couldn't get into my man the way he wanted me too i was always thinking about this woman so i let go of the man... to end all confusion and deal with me. My ex said that i was wrong to break up with him but we was arguing everyday about my lifestyle do you think i was wrong what would you have done?
2007-01-12 05:12:47 · 7 answers · asked by Mz.G 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No you weren't wrong at all. It's better you do what makes you happy. It would have been wrong if you lead him on believing that he was the only one and that he was completely satisfying you. He should be happy you let him go now and didnt wait until the night before your wedding!
2007-01-12 05:20:37 · answer #1 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cheated on him by getting with this girl, so yes, breaking up was a good move if he isn't ok with you seeing girls..
guess you need to sort out your true feelings.. maybe you will be able to be happy with just a woman.. but it could get really tricky if you feel the need to have both a man and woman in your life at the same time..
might wanna try finding bi partners.. they will be more likely to be ok with this type of "poly" arrangement..
2007-01-12 13:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not at all. Sounds like you actually broke up for a good reason. You need to find out who you are and learn to be comfortable in that before you can devote your attentions to any one person. Good for you!
He's just wounded and will say anything to protect his "manhood."
2007-01-12 13:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what makes YOU happy. If he was constantly giving you the business about your life then it sounds like he wasn't a boyfriend it sounds like he was a weight around your neck.
2007-01-12 13:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing..
but what was his point of view when he said that it was wrong to break up with him?
i'm not sure if i could bring my self up to do the same, but i will definitely know that this was the right thing to do :)
I admire your courage
2007-01-12 13:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Deema 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did what you needed to do and what you thought was right based on your morals. Ignore his angry rants.
2007-01-12 15:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short.....be happy
2007-01-12 13:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by fire n ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋