Why do i feel this way?

Question

I have low self-esteem. I always feel as if i am ugly. everyone else says that i am very pretty. But when boys try to talk to me i am hesitant because i kno they jus wanna talk beacuse i have big chest and a big azz. I have my pic on blackplanet and my name is . Check it out tell my what you think.

PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I am not sure how to look at your pics but do have a few thoughts.

It is hard to look in the mirror and compare yourself to some the "perfect" starts and models. However We each have our own beauty and style. We just need some help once in a while to see it.

Maybe a make over would make you feel better? Try a new hair style or even a new color!

You mention some of your prominent features. Do you want to emphasize them or make them less prominent? Once you decide that, you can buy some new clothes and shoes. Let your new outfits improve how you feel!

Lastly and probably most importantly, write down the good things about yourself and your life. This will improve your overall attitude. I have been doing this for almost a year atleast once a week and I have a much better outlook!

Good Luck!