ive been married to my hubby for 7 yrs. the other night i had a dream about a friend. im a very happy woman in my marriage and was wondering whats wrong with me? is that normal?
2007-01-12 04:43:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that its normal to dream about sex with others. You are a normal woman with fantasies and interests and etc. That doesnt mean that you necessarily want to act on it. Besides, since you have been married for 7 years, sometimes its like eating chicken and mashed potatoes every day for 7 years and you want to try crab legs just to appreciate your chicken and mashed potatoes.
2007-01-12 04:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just asked a similar question minutes ago and found that I'm not the only one! lol I thought I was not normal for having so many sex dreams every night about different men. I was thinking I was a dirty dreaming sl*t....lol I have too many sex dreams about neighborhood men and even men that I made up in my own mind :) I feel much better to know I'm not alone. From my responses I hear that it's very normal just as long as you don't act upon it. I actually love having those dreams. It's a guilty pleasure where you're not really doing anything wrong...and I like the fact that it seems so real. I do love my husband very much though. I have no idea how he'd react if I told him. I don't think you have to tell your husband though. It's not like youre guilty of anything.
2007-01-12 12:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are perfectly normal. Your must be careful though as your dreams usually reflect your thought process. Is there someone you like other than your husband? If so, try and avoid that person by focusing your attention on something/someone else. Dreams are unexpected at times, but we should not fear because of them. Try to spend more time with your husband and don't tell him about the dream. Tell him he means the whole world to you and you will never hurt him.
Bottom line is; A dream is a dream and will come true only if we make it. Good luck!
2007-01-12 12:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by cardo11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it is normal...even if you are happy, it is absolutely okay to look or dream, as long as you don't act out on it...and dreaming about it does not mean that you want someone else. There might just be something really attractive or interesting about your friend, and your mind had its way with that.
2007-01-12 12:55:50 · answer #4 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it's normal. In fact after 7 years hasn't that ever happenned before. I'v only been married 3 years and I have dreams abotu having sex with other people a few times a year. Then again, I also remember my dreams every night and my dreams of sex with others don't ever turn me on. In fact, sometimes theyre funny. I tell them to my husband and he jokes with me about it.
2007-01-12 12:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by stripedbook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal! Both hubby and I have the same thing happen to us! Basic animal instinct. Doesn't mean anything other than you have a normal drive!
2007-01-12 12:48:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot control your dreams no matter how happy you are you can still have a nightmare. It is normal to have a sex dream about someone else just do not tell your spouse lol.
2007-01-12 13:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. I have been in serious happy relationships and I have had dreams about other guys, women, strangers, etc. It is normal. Our brains have images and desires and when in a dream state your mind can go anywhere.
So was it a juicy dream? I would love to hear about it - yummy!!!
2007-01-12 12:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Leesa K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty normal. You can't control your dreams. You can control what actions may take place from having the dream.
2007-01-12 12:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by bigfree_2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was that a dream where you had se_x with your friend? That is normal. Most people daydream this called as fantasy.
2007-01-12 12:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋