I have been married for 3 years ... I am 30 he is 26 ...I have a very high sex drive and he has none. I would like it 3-4 times a week.He is happy with Once a week to once every two weeks.Cheating is not something that I am worried about with him..So any ideas on what it could be, or what I can do to give him a little push .Nagging has not worked , and I think it makes him feel bad.So now I just suffer with B.O.B but its not the same.
2007-01-12 04:33:34 · 15 answers · asked by french1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
eye candy is great just put it on his face or strode your self in front of him naked, touch him make him feel like you need him that would make him feel desire, and it does work i am happily married and i have sex at least 2 to 3 times a day and a full time job and i take care of our daughter everything is possible, usually at nite i just grab him by the waist and i start to caress him next thing i know is on, in the morning he starts and at lunch is a booty call we like to play games and they great too just find what you are most comfortable with and do it and have fun****
2007-01-12 04:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are the same some men have very high high sex drives and others well they can live without it. If sex was high before you might want to see what is wrong. He could be masterbating to much and would rather do that instead or he just lost interest in sex. That does not mean he lost interest in you he just lost his sex drive. He might want to seek a doctor to see what is going on.
2007-01-12 05:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens a lot, more so than you might believe. I suggest you discuss it with your OB/Gyn. He/She might be able to give you some direction that would be better than what you are getting here. AT 26, something does seem to be out of wack. I have some thoughts but you have not given a whole lot to work with here.
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2007-01-12 04:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by Bill G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew. My girl wants it everyday 2x a day but I'm happy with 3-4x a week. Although, i have to say when I was 26 I wanted it everyday.
2007-01-12 04:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you stop by two times a week and he can have the other one. I'll still be below what I want but that has almost always been the case for me.
2007-01-12 04:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why suffer? He's not going to come on here looking for ways to cheer you up in the sack, because he doesn't give a damn. I'm so sick of guys who only want it when you don't, then later, not wanting it when you do, and all the while, we have to fight them off or doubt ourselves and watch our self-esteem go down the toilet when they reject OUR advances, but we have to give it up when THEY want it, but only then. Selfish b a s t a r d s
2007-01-12 04:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Could be one of many things,is he working to hard are there any financial problems medical conditions. have you tried to change the way you arouse him? try something new and if everything fails see a sex therapist
2007-01-12 04:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by little ragu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people get comfortable in relationships , and let the little things go ... Are you still as hot as you were 4 years ago , do you still dress nicely ...surely you can think of something that will get him to notice you...
2007-01-12 04:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by klunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What Little Ragu said! Pretty much what I was going to tell you.
2007-01-12 04:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your nagging probably shot down his testosterone level. Give him his balls back and that might help.
How much weight have you gained in the last three years?
2007-01-12 04:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋