well i was in class and i droped a paper and i picked it up then i saw a note uner the carpet. i read the note and it was making fun of this frind of mine (girl) and now i dont know wat to do (it was mking fun of the girl and her bf) and the note is by 2 other girls and one of them i like.
should i show it to my friend and then she gets mad.
OR
should i give it back to the girl i like.
and the people tat wrote the note and my friend used to be friends but got mad at each other
2007-01-12 04:09:41 · 21 answers · asked by some,random,guy 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
OK.........whatever........to much teen drama for me
2007-01-12 12:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't show it to your friend, it will only hurt her feelings. As for the girls who wrote it, now you know what they are really like, and you should keep that in mind. If they talk nasty about people just beacuse they got into an argument with them then they are showing their true colours. It's the same as bullying, but they don't have the guts to say it to her face. If they would do that to her, then they could do it to you too. Either way, it's shallow and mean.
2007-01-12 12:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trash the note, and avoid gossip and rumors. It isn't worth your time or energy to get into drama. That way, nobody gets their feelings hurt. Just forget about the note altogether. As for your friend that was targeted by the insults, don't tell her about it, just make sure that she isn't best friends with the authors of the note. You would be doing your part by making sure that the author isn't backstabbing your friend. For the rest, don't think much of the note.
2007-01-13 22:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by Emerald 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hated when people told me what others said about me, if it was bad. I don't even like to talk about others in any capacity, good or bad, because i have been burned by gossip. Today, I know that in some way, my friends thought they were "doing me a favor" (can't figure it out) by informing me of such things (is it a misguided loyalty thing???) but all it made me was MISERABLE and literally sick.
edit: the other posters are right about not even talking to the people who wrote the note. forget it.
2007-01-12 12:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by * 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Throwing it away would be wiser. There's no reason to seek out drama. Don't take whatever it says too seriously because whoever wrote it could have been upset/jealous/giggly/whatever at the time, and the note may not reflect the writer's true judgment.
2007-01-12 12:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Alisha H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that Real friends will be there when you need them. I dont know how close you are with your friend but I think you should tell her about the note...but then again...you dont want to cause another problem with them again! You have to ask yourself...who do you care for the most? Your friend or this girl you like? Think hard on this one!
2007-01-12 12:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say don't give it to ur friend give it bac. first u save ur self alot to blame and out of trouble for all 3 of ya. also u just give it bac even thought u may think it was wrong to have read what those girls wrote u won't have 2 mad people. and in the end they will blame u for the whole thing so play it safe and give it bac.
2007-01-12 15:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by kingjj_xlr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other first two answers.
Throw it away and don't mention it to anyone especially to the girl you like. because can YOU really like this girl after she is making fun of one your friend?? Even tho it was down on paper can you believe her completely if asking her about it. That she might say " Oh, I was just going along with it?" just a harmless fun??
MMmmm... or is that who she REALLY is?
Think about it.
Love and Peace in 2007 :-)
2007-01-12 12:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by bottom dollar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go hand it to the girl that wrote it and just walk away so she will know you are mad at her.
2007-01-12 13:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by ♥cutie with a booty♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just gave back the note to the gal u like..and u might wanna ask wats up with the note, and be part of the gossip club!
2007-01-12 12:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by vintage_closet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that happened to me i found a slam book that belonged to a group of nasty girls i knew and it was totally trashing a friend of mine, i didnt say any thing to her i just left the slam book in the desk and never really said any thing about it
2007-01-12 15:22:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋