My sister inlaw left me a wierd comment saying that she knew the answer to all my questions and that the lower abdomial pain & dishcharge iw as having it was caused by Chlymidia. I didn;t see the message per say but my cousins, sister and a couple of friends did and they really beleived there was something wrong with me. Shouldi be mad at her even though she claims it was all a practical joke?? i didnt think it was funny since my profile is open to the public. I called her and told her that i didn;t appreaciate her putting messages like that and she got mad at me for that. Who should be mad her or me? did i over react?? I'm over it now but- she's making me feel like since i told her i didn't like her little comment- she won't talk to me like she always did- she's acting like she's the pissed off one. What do i do? i get along good with her but i also don't want her thinking she can do that and get away with it.
2007-01-12 04:06:58 · 9 answers · asked by Cheesy Stuff 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
SHE IS BRAINLESS!!!!!!!!!I would be mad!! Go to a doctor and get the results then post them if they are O.K. As for her!!!..It was NOT funny!!! I can think of alot to do to her, but don't get down to her level!!
2007-01-12 04:12:24 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hardly think she would appreciate it if you did the same thing to her. First, take care of you. See a doctor and rule it out. Secondly, let her be mad. She probably realizes she went too far and isn't good at admitting she was in the wrong. If she really doesn't think it was a big deal, she's not one I would choose as a friend. Remember, a friend is someone who doesn't put you in harms way or hurt you purposefully. There's no possibility she thought this wouldn't bother you. Well, unless she's a little shy of a full head of brain cells, then maybe she didn't know. Could she have some mental issues with being slow? Seriously.
2007-01-12 12:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that wasn't very nice. you can delete comments so make sure you do that if you haven't already. Myabe you can talk to her and see if she'll post another comment saying she was just joking, so then maybe everyone won't think you have something. She shouldn't be the one who's upset because she made the mean comment. I guess you need to decide if you want to be friends with her. I'd just leave her alone or tell her that you don't want to be friends with someone who says things like that about you. If she doesn't care, then maybe you should not be friends anymore. good luck!
2007-01-12 12:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there a possibility she's right? Are you sexually active? If you are then you have a very good chance of being infected. Hopefully it's not HIV. If you are sexually active then the next reasonable question is Why? The next one is, do you have a reasonable answer that will explain how these activities are going to better you in the future?
2007-01-12 12:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by KIB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she did it, it was rude and uncalled for (even if it had been true, it's not anyone's place to splatter someone else's private business to the world).
If she wants to be mad, let her. She was in the wrong and perhaps she'll think twice before playing a "practical joke" in the future.
2007-01-12 12:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be mad it's just a joke. I have seen it. But right now I think you should be the first to tell her that you over reacted and that you realized it was a joke. Sorry no hard feelings.
2007-01-12 12:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty06 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is wrong for putting that up there and ruining your good name and then wrong for being mad at you. Dont sweat it or her.
2007-01-12 12:12:42 · answer #7 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get checked, scan the test results, put them on your site too
its a very real credential these days
2007-01-12 12:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell people something about her and get overit
2007-01-12 12:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by ana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋