even if we dont have s-x right away and we share common personalities, interests, etc... it still never goes past 3 mos. in 10 yrs, 3 mos was the avg relationship w/ 3 weeks being also common (w/o sex even sometimes). what is the problem? There have been like 20 guys who i have dated, so i just give up and go on manhunt. I don't see what is so difficult...i think i turn gay guys off bc i have had both ivy league undergrad and am now in grad school at another Ivy (i know brains turn off men) - i dont have a 6 pack or enormous penis, and am not an ANF model - but i am smarter than most ppl and have done improv at a famous theater for yrs so i am supposedly funny... i dont like sports... aright so that should be enough data for some answers.
oh and this has been going on 10 years... so it's no longer a matter of just "waiting" for the right guy
2007-01-12 04:05:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
they always dump me. sorry was brief...not enough characters to work with.
2007-01-12 04:20:32 · update #1
sorry i didnt mean to come across as feeling superior... i mean i said i dont have a big d*(k... lol - so how much more down to earth can i get? the ivy league thing is just a fact and while GIRLS are extremely turned on by this - I feel tha tit turns of guys
2007-01-12 08:26:32 · update #2
Okay, this is actual a lot more common that you think.
Most gay guys (I speak generally for the mere reason, many of the gay guys will never admit to this) are in the mood for one thing. SEX. Granted they may be made to jump through hoops (usually by hustlers or people who know they are wanted) to get it.
In fact, many will actually do anything to gain that little time of intimacy with that fantasy dream-date. Going into it, they dream of the wedding and the future they and their new-found love may present. Only track these guys ever stay on is the one that leads to the bedroom.
Unfortunately though, they lose track of all else that is happening around them because they are in such 'sexual' bliss they forget to see beyond the bedroom. They think only of themself and forget their partner (or 'f_u_c_ k__b_u_d_d_y). Soon enough, their partner's needs really doesn't matter any longer, as long as their libido is being taken care of.
Sad but true, that by the time they awake to the real problem, their partners ( F B ) is already out the door and down the block.
Relationship are mostly nutured by sharing, caring, listening, learning, loving, and of course the 'sexual component'. Not losing sight of any of this may help you keep someone longer and you will both reap the rewards.
Good luck
bga
2007-01-12 04:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From what i read, it sounds like you may feel superior to them or to people in general(look at your comment about you being smarter than most). You going to Ivy Leagues should be a non-issue same as if the other guy went to a community college. And no, looks are not as important as would like to believe because we will all age and fade away. 10 years of dating is a long time but I've found that at the end of each relationship, reflecting on my behavior during the relationship is a good way to see where my flaws are and with time, i grow as a person. Also, do you know what you want in another man? Do you generally go for guys who are considered "very good looking" or just what you find attractive? I've seen many of my friends going for a specific look or attribute and that's always a beginning to an end. I hope you figure stuff out.
2007-01-12 04:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by kidkill18 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in these relationships, who breaks up with who? and were the reasons discussed.
off the cuff, my guess would be that many of these masculine guys were not looking for relationships, but that is just a guess based on limited facts.
Edit:
Personally I like a variety of guys, not too flamey but effeminate is not a turn off for me. I am more concerned with whether or not the guy has a good heart and can carry a conversation.
Too bad you are going to Ivy league schools, that means you aren't very close to me.
I looked back at your other questions and I would suggest that you slow down a bit. Maybe you are trying too hard. Again I can only guess here.
2007-01-12 04:18:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Homosexuality is only about sex.It doesn't include things like children ,family etc.These are the things that usually keep people together for a long time-sometimes.Sex and desire alone have a short life.Enjoy the life you chose and don't worry too much.There are many fish in the sea.
2007-01-12 14:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 14:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not gay nor am I a guy but if you just BE YOURSELF the lid to your POT will arrive. RELAX!
2007-01-12 04:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by debbieschwencke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because people realise bum-holing each other is wrong(shuddering at the thought,yuck!)
2007-01-12 04:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋