Ok here it goes......... Right now i am 16 years old, im A junior in Highschool,and Im currently FAILING 2 classes which are Math,and English And ive been really STRESSED about school............IM TRYING SO HARD to make up these credits from Freshman Year because i failed them ........ which are "Math and SocialStudies" in "credit recovery" But its really freaking Hard because math isnt my Best subject and its just really gets to my emotions sometimes because i "feel stupid that i dont get it" and i fear i may not graduate in time........ well thats that........ ok 2nd part Well when i was a freshman my mom found out was BISEXUAL and HATED IT so she took me to some kind of "therapy" which also SUCKED and After that my mom and dad acted like im Straight and not BISEXUAL.....But they know i am because well "im not the straightest kid there is"........ anywho all this has been on my mind AND IM GOING CRAZY I have been crying my self to sleep ALOT i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
2007-01-12 04:00:05 · 8 answers · asked by Jason :) 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to your school counselor. Don't worry about your parents you don't have much time left to live with them until you can move out on your own. If it makes them feel better to pretend your are straight for the moment just don't let it bother you, you need to worry about school first then after you graduate you can deal with your parents and tell them they need to deal with your sexuality. Good luck!
2007-01-12 04:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by The_Game 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how your feeling so first off integrated math may be a easier class that will help much better and second off you need to tell the facts of life to your parents because who you are will never change now do not run away from home it just makes matters worse so the thing I am seeing is that this stress is growing worse until you do something about it if I were your parents I would love you for who you are. Email me at norway484@yahoo.com I am a 16 year old male and I have the same problem and I am interested in you.
2007-01-12 13:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by scottsmith20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are who you are...a wonderful person. Your bisexuality is something that will take time for your parents to accept, even if they don't accept it, that is who you are. And they love you. I am so sorry for the way that they have reacted. I will pray for them to see that you are still the same person that you have always been.
As far as school goes have you tryed talking to your councler? Asked for a tutor? Ask some of your friends that are good in those subjects to help you out. You should be shown different ways to slove the same problem. To see witch one you understand more. See if there is any extra credit with the teachers', if you take the extra time to talk to them they will usually help you out the best that they can. But you really should if you haven't talk with your school councler, set up summer school or what ever you need to do. They will know the best way of doing this. Plan with them, and follow through.
Good Luck with everything!!!
2007-01-12 12:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by ohdarnitsmeagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep your mind on your classes and salvage what you can and try to pass. It's not good to take everything all over again. Your education is what's going to get you through life. Don't give up. You'll be so glad if you do.
2nd part...A lot of people think they are bisexual. Sometimes they are just experimenting and know down deep they are not. Some movie stars have done the same thing. It will work itself out. Don't just do it to be cool. It's not really.
2007-01-12 12:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Barbra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need extra help, i'm sure any teacher would be more than glad to help you after school. You can also consider a tutor to help you on the subjects that you don't comprehend as much.
As for the second part, YOU ARE WHO YOU ARE and no one can change that, not even your parents. They can only deny the truth for so long and soon enough they will have to make a decision whether to love you, their son, for who you are. 'Til that day comes, relax and don't be afraid to be yourself. It's more important for you to understand and know yourself and to be comfortable with yourself.
2007-01-12 12:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by kz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry your having such a hard time. i didn't do so well in school either when it came to math and science and got really behind too. i dropped out though which didn't help. but i got smart and went back to school and got a tudor to help me and i graduated!! so get a tudor they are real life savers! the right one will help you get caught up and help you to understand your subjects better. as for your sexuality, its your business and nobody has the right to judge anyone else by who they are sleeping with. your parents will just have to learn to accept you as you are and all of you need to be respecful to eachother so you don't loose a good relationship wirth eachother. GOOD LUCK i hope things go better for you.
2007-01-12 12:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be O'K, just try to keep a clear head and realize that things will always work themselves out. Do what you're doing and try not too worry too much because it truly get's ya nowhere.
2007-01-12 12:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by Bones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all your not stupid, go to an afterschool program you can get help with your math. math was always hard for me too, it takes patience, but i am sure you will catch on. and i think your parents will accept your choices in time, they are your parents and they love you.
2007-01-12 12:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by D T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋