My mom died about a year ago. She was not the kind of person that I went to for advice alot because she was kind of condescending. Now that she is gone, whenever I have a problem I don't miss her alot because I never went to her in the first place. I finally have a good friend that I talk about everything with now. How do people that feel they have no one to talk to cope with life? Do alot of you people feel this way? I am not sad with my life, I just think that you should be able to talk with people about things going on in their lives, like a sounding board. I'm wondering if most people have had sounding boards and friends to cut loose with most of their lives and I am just now understanding this part of life? I am going on 40.
2007-01-12 03:39:01 · 4 answers · asked by LaLa Land 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i talk to one of my cousins and my friends maybe you need a counsoler i know no one ever wants to go to one but there good for listening
2007-01-12 03:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like that, (having no-one to really talk to) but that's changed in hte last year or so.
How did I deal? Well, I just did. When I had a problem, I dealt with it myself. When the loneliness got really bad, I would work out at the gym to clear my head. I bought a punching bag and hung it from the ceiling of the garage. I would hit that thing for hours at a time to vent all the negative emotions I might be feeling. You need to know how to vent more than anything. Getting feedback is nice, but it's all about clearing your head. Working out helps
Now everybody asks ME for advice when they have a problem.
2007-01-12 03:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a young friend,believe it or not that was so good for me..we talked about everything,she was very mature for her age.she grew up with a younger sis,n her mom...her mom work so she learn to take care of her self,n her sis...well they went away,it really kill me without her around to talk n do things,with..no sex..we were just friends i guess i was like a older brother or father figure...but everyone needs someone special..i dont know they survive w/o one...i miss my friend...gl
2007-01-12 03:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person with who I can talk about anything is my sister.She understands me and I could tell her everything,even my deepest secrets cause I'm sure that she won't tell anyone.
2007-01-12 03:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by black_cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋