my husband and i are trying to conceive we dont use condoms but it is hard?

Question

i want a baby so bad but it is not happening what do i do

Answer 1

You are most fertile afew days before your period and afew days after. If you are having sex at these times and it has been over a year I would recommend going to talk with a specialist or atleast your OB. Also keep in mind, the older you get the harder it might be for you. I never had any problems. I do have friends that it took over a year to get pregnant. They were older than us though. I was 26 when I had my first she was like 34. I also have a couple of friends that kept having miscarriages and realized they just needed a medication. They both have the children they desired now. Good Luck and try not to stress out over it. It does affect the performance especially for your husband.

Answer 2

How long has it been? We stopped using condoms and it still took us about 4 months to conceive. The third month I found out I had an ovarian cyst so, I was really surprised that I got preggo the 4th. By that time we were worried that something was wrong, but it just takes time. Plus, it seems like it happens when you stop worrying about it as much. Good luck and try not to stress out about it.

Answer 3

For one you cant be stressed, I think if you are really stressed it can cause problems with conceiving. It may take some time before you get pregnant so try not to let it bother you that its not happening yet. If it doesn't happen after a while then I would go see a doctor.

Answer 4

You need to relax the more stress you have the less likely to conceive. If you have been on any birth control it takes time to work out of your system. Just relax and have fun, don't make it a "job" to have a baby.

My husband and I did it three times in one day and that was how we conceived. (Not using protection for four years and nothing)

Good Luck!

Answer 5

How long have you been trying without using a bc method? Technically, doctors don't consider people as "having a problem" until they have been trying a year without conceiving. If your periods are regular (28-30 days), try "doing it" 14 days before/after your period... that's when you're likely to be ovulating. You can also get a basal body temperature thermometer and chart your temperature; take it each morning before you get out of bed. When you see a jump in temp midway between your cycle, that's your fertile time.

Answer 6

Don't worry just yet. I know it's very hard to do. unless you have been trying for over a year. Imagine the miracle that happens when someone does get pregnant - there is only a few days in which you may get pregnant and everything has to line up just right. It will happen, trust in God and yourselves. stay positive. good luck.

Answer 7

Don't have sex for a few days so your husband can build up a big load. This way when you have sex there will be more fish swimming and perhaps a greater chance of getting pregnant.

You could also try getting pregnant from another man as perhaps your husband isn't able to do it. Perhaps the dog would like a shot at you.

Answer 8

Really if you think about it that's too much pressure. Try two ways....Do "IT" the day before you are supposed to go on your period and the day right after you end.That's the way I got pregnant.It's worth a try.....Good luck. If you guys get really depressed and it's hard,maybe talk to your doctor about having some tests done.

Answer 9

You go see your OBGYN and have fertility testing done. and trying to hard to have a baby could stop you from getting pregnant. Your mind has away with playing with your body.

Answer 10

See a fertility specialist.