he is my tutor and single with 3 children and i am married but want to leave my husband(we are not living together now), i have feeling for this man but i think it is wrong. we are no match and only me, confused, lonely, and crying if he not reply to my e-mail
2007-01-12 03:34:26 · 11 answers · asked by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds to me that since you are lonely, you are looking for rebound. trust me sweety..a man who's working to support 3 kids on his own, and has not in any way made any advances towards you is not a proper rebound. you should divorce your husband if its not going to work out, and if you are lonely and just want rebound, i can tell you this: it hurts. very much so. be strong and be brave and wait and see what comes along for you. striking up random relationships with people just because you are lonely will only lead to even more heartache and tears on your part.
I wish you all the luck in the world.....i've been there and done that, and its not pretty hun.
2007-01-12 05:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by jeneric803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a crush on your tutor. Don't leave your husband for a crush.
Why are you and your husband living apart?
Are you separated? Do you want your husband back? Does he want to come back? Don't even think of getting into another relationship until your marriage is completely over. Is there any chance of trying to make your marriage work?
2007-01-12 12:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by ashwellgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are not happy with your husband than you should take care of that problem before anything else happens. To leave your husband for another man will be miserable for you all. If you already think it is wrong then it probably is. Find another tutor and move on.
2007-01-12 11:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay why do you want o leave your husband and why are you seperated and not living together now? If you cannot work your marriage out with your spouse then let him go and divorce3 him before seeing this man.... Get your ducks in order first is all i am saying.
2007-01-12 11:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the stronger a person is as an individual the stronger couple they will make.
I recommend to make a clean break from your husband before moving on to someone else.
2007-01-12 12:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you feel he is smart, you feel it wrong. How do you know you are no match unless you talk to him to find out what he likes? May be worth a conversation and a casual date to find out
2007-01-12 11:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he`s on here, as you don`t allow email he can`t reply can he? There again you I am sure know when sometimes emails just don`t arrive depending which country one is in,I`ve experienced that first hand.
2007-01-12 16:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think this is the man for you . I think you are very unhappy at the moment and have focused on this man . Please go to Relate and they will help you work out what you really want to do regarding your marriage.
2007-01-12 12:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=/ Does this man love you though? Don't leave your husband if this other man doesn't love you! Leave your husband if you don't love him anymore and you know it's not working.
2007-01-12 11:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by angelfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. You should leave your husband and go on with your life though.
2007-01-12 11:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋