My girlfriend says she loves me but she likes to look pretty for other boys. She said she doesnt mind if they like her look but when I tell her I like her clothes, makeup or her hairstyle she always changes it, stops doing what I like(eg. wearing ligloss) or does the opposite to what I like. But when she asked me to wear suit and glasses(I dont usually) I did. What should I do?
2007-01-12 03:24:55 · 13 answers · asked by Shironeko 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
She is a slutty girl and she is messing with you! dump her !
2007-01-12 03:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by Angela Vicario 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 22:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn’t hate you. Don’t be silly. There is a little secret: women dress for other women, it’s not for the boys. You are a boy even if you are her boyfriend lets say if one of her girlfriends tells her that the eye shadow isn’t good for her skin tone she will listen to her not you. Common are you really enjoying talking about fashion with her or are you trying hard to see how she looks naked while you stare at her breasts like all the normal boys I know and love. Don’t tell me you read Cosmo and look for this season fashion tips.
Now this is the real question does she like to be with you? Does she smile when you are with her? Does she talk about your relationship? Does she look in your eyes like a love sick puppy? Well if those answers are a yes she loves you.
Is she flirtatious with other boys? If that’s a yes you better talk to her (talk not scream and shout names at her, ok!?) if she cares even a bit about you she will answer you back.
I hope this helps you. Good luck buddy.
2007-01-13 09:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop the bi-polar ***** .. seriously... if shes gonna be that way .
my boyfriend has things he likes about me and if its wearin lip-gloss imma wear it any way so why not when hes around? it seems like shes an attention hog .. just wants ppl to look at her all the time regardless who it is. .. really could lead to trouble in the long run.
tell her how you feel in a letter ... (thats what my parents did it worked better than talking) ... if she dont change or show a bit more caring then id leave.
xoxo
emily
2007-01-12 03:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Emily ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i actually can kind of relater, to HER. my life is seriously messedup right now. medical things and brain damage (slight at this point) which messes with my feelings. ok so i'k not saying she's brain damaged but here's my story.
i get scared a lot, scared that Forrest will leave me or realize i'm too difficult to deal with ( he constantly promises that i am the only one for him) i know that we are secure, and in love when i try to think rationally . my my emotions say otherwise. so anyway, since i don't know how to deal with how i'm feeling, i just get upset and take it out on him, act distant or get mad at little things he does. which makes me think i'll drive him away and i get deeper into it.
i also don't really have the greatest self-esteem. i know i'm decent looking, but again i just don't FEEL it. he will tell me i'm beautiful and i'll just think he's lying. he'll make a nice comment on one feature if i do something different and i'll just think that that feature is usually NOT attractive at all, and then i'll try to get back at him by not doing that thing anymore...... aarrggghh.
i'm totally working on it, we've been through a lot already and i know we'll be just fine, i just sometimes can't believe it.
basically what i'm saying, is it could be totally true that she loves you, but somehting that she doesn't know how to deal with may be going on, and if you want to stick it out with her, then you gotta ask what that it.
(i'm not asking for sympathy or for you guys to tell me that it's my problem and he doesn't deserve me in this, i'm just telling what's going on)
haley
2007-01-12 03:57:58 · answer #5 · answered by haleysname 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever she's doing, in the end she's playing with you, trying to test u.
if u dont' like that, u might have to move on. i understand haley's point of view there, but at the same time she may be making things more difficult for the guy, regardless of if it's on purpose or not. perhaps she needs him to stay strong and be there for her, perhaps it'd be better for him to get the hint and leave. either way, she may not be in the position to be involved in a Healthy relationship.... good luck
2007-01-12 06:42:40 · answer #6 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a bit hard. She says she loves you but she 'hates' you. I don't think she HATES you but shes just doesn't know what going on in her head right now. She likes to dress for other guys you say..but maybe she's just dressing for herself. And when you said that she changes her outfit/hairstyle when you say you like it...i don't know what she's got inside her head..TALK TO HER! shes your girlfriend and you have to let her no how you feel.
2007-01-12 03:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you start doing similar things to her? And see how she reacts. May be you are giving her too much attention. Withdraw for some time. If she gets worked up, she's into you, if not, just tell her how you feel and say goodbye.
2007-01-12 05:08:53 · answer #8 · answered by DC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop gushing over her and giving her compliments. It sounds like she has you wrapped around her little finger...if she needs attention from other boys and doesn't accept your attention...you might consider ending the relationship or better yet...let her know that you are upset and tell her what you want from her. Communication and mutual respect are crucial...if she doesn't respect you...dump her.
2007-01-12 03:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Yumyum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soz but maybe she just wants 2 break up with you or something and shes dropping little hints here and there 2 stop u 4rm loving her that much...
maybe she has another guy (soz again lol) so i think the best thing is 2 just ask her out straight cos its obvious she doesnt wanna break your heart or anything
...hope that helps...
2007-01-12 03:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by bad to the bone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave her. It sounds like she's not into you and is seeking attention from other guys (ex: looking good for them). You can do better!
2007-01-12 03:30:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋