i have a problem, when i think something positive is going to happen, my mind has a doubt that it is not going to happen
2007-01-12 03:06:38 · 6 answers · asked by shootinggower 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
positive self-talk- tell yourself the opposite of what your doubting so that the positive thoughts overtake the doubts in your mind
2007-01-12 03:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the enemy! U have to TRUST GOD. if u dont believe in God than u have to Trust something? luck, chance, the stars.. reality is All things can be used for good.
Find joy even in bad times.. I used to take that doubt or worst case senario and say ok if that did happen what would be So bad about that.... would I still have the essentials of life? If not... What could I do...
Doubt can be a paralyzing thing! u have to put ur trust in something!
2007-01-12 11:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Christal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason is that you internally wants no negative aspect to occur, and in your subconscious you want to take measures to face the challenges - and this pattern is sometimes reflected outside as negative thought during positive thinking.
This indicates that you need more experience of 'Wisdom' . Means you can't run the life on illusions and assumptions itself - it needs more clarity and confidence.
For this try to understand the realities of life and proceed ahead - it may take little time, but you will achieve it.
2007-01-12 11:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have this same problem.. ive had quite a few byfriends and its going great until bam i have doubts about him and break up with him.. unless im scared of committment but i think its all because of doubts!!!!
so i just try and ignore it and if that doesnt work i slap my hand or something like that.. it works lol.
2007-01-12 11:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by CarLee Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If these doubts are reguarding someone, talk to them about it and be as open as you can. Try not to be hurtful, but be honest about how you feel. Talk to friends about the situation. 2 heads are always better than one...
2007-01-12 11:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by Ragman9432 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow some smoke in that it will chill you out.
2007-01-12 11:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋