2007-01-12 02:54:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been married 3 years and 3 days now... so Woot! They say that if you make it past the 3 year mark then you're pretty good, but if you make it pas the 7 year mark, then you're gold... or probably staying together for a long time. In anycase, like many of the entries above, marriage is what you make it out to be and how your spouse and you react to one another.
I will admit that in most marriage, there is some quarreling when the marriage starts to get under way, in my case our marriage was rocky for the first year... this was due to mother-in-law issues and other family issues and expectations that came up... I will tell you though, women are the harshest on other women and trust me, it isn't pretty when all hell breaks loose... but you know what, in 5 years, is it going to matter? No.
Most men prefer their wife to be submissive and do everything they ask them to do... cook, clean, watch the children, etc. I will tell you strait out that the newer generation of women are not like that, infact they prefer to be equals in life, and in my case, in business. Honestly, this may pose an issue for you and as everyone know, everybody is different and have different pet-peevs along with a different outlook on life and the environment around them. So, what you want to do to make relationships work, especiall marriages, is to read a book called "The 5 Love Languages" (website is below). This book will cover what language you speak, may it be acts of service that make you feel loved, or words of affirmation, what ever it is. I will tell you that my love language is acts of service... so an example is... is that I feel loved when my wife does things for me, like clean the house, or get my business cloths ironed and ready for me before we head off to a business meeting.... or something as little as cooking for me or washing the dishes... She knows my love language so she'll do those things to get the point across that she loves me and still does. In return I tune into her love language, which is quality time, so I help her wash the dishes together to spend some time with her... that way it's a win-win situation... also I make the time from my busy schedule to go with her to flower gardens or help her plan some trips, etc. This way, she feels loved... so we don't speak the words, "I love you" very much because we show it though the actions and things that we do for one another... words are very strong, but the over use of words make them lose their power... very much like how a research paper keeps on using the same words... In any case, I'd really suggest that you read that book for it'll put a focus in your life so that you know what you are and also it'll help you to find your perfect match.
2007-01-12 03:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by dukeofhmong 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol this ought to be faux. a individual as self based, concieded, ego centric, and intensely spoiled as you has probable on no account considered antype of hassle of their existence. you reside in fantasy land. What precisely do you're making contributions to this marriage as properly the undeniable fact which you think of that your seems is all it relatively is mandatory?? I advise heavily Your head is so a approaches up your guy or woman ****. Your a approaches from a real woman. a real women human beings doesnt take benefit of their husband or look down upon all and sundry else around them. i've got faith undesirable because of the fact your of course a poor individual.Time to advance up and land returned on planet earth. Marriage is a partnership with somebody you like and might do something for. no longer a meal value ticket....b**ch
2016-10-07 01:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by grumney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage means nothing. Nothing meaning, without a developed relationship to wit the both of you have spent years adjusting and developing your respect, love and self about each other than nothing is nothing.
Marriage does not make love GREAT or GREATER. It is just a romantic way for two people who are deep into each other to become closer, in life and in spirit. PLUS
The church forbid sex before marriage so they conned us and took something beautiful and meaningful and turned it into sinful and controlling.
2007-01-12 03:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great having somebody to share ups and downs with. Somebody to plan and live your life out with. It's great knowing that there is always somebody at your side.
I highly recommend it!
2007-01-12 02:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by BAM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find the right person it is the most wonderful thing in the world
2007-01-12 02:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marraige is what a couple makes out of it- the closer they are as friends, the better and stronger the marraige will be
2007-01-12 02:57:23 · answer #6 · answered by myspacewolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will depend on the two people involved.
2007-01-12 02:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy being married, because then you can have children.
2007-01-12 02:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from surveys, married people are more happy than singles.
2007-01-12 03:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life.........Your marriage........is what YOU make it!
2007-01-12 03:04:27 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋