my wife says i am paranoid and need help,dictates my problems and says i dont listen to her.she set up a website asking to meet single men stating she was single,she admits it was wrong and wont do it again.cos we live apart at the moment its hard to trust her when she says things like "i will have another man around tonight"when we row on phone then ignores me and dont answer phone.if she says she wont talk and is goin to bed early i accuse her of being on the chat room she set up or with a man around.she says these comments make relationship worse 4 us and that i aint good enough 4 her,i am in process of selling up to be with her again but am very sressed at the way things are rite now,she also accuses me of unfaithfulness with another woman yet i am not.how do i stop accusing her when she ignores me and i feel worried in case she is still trying to meet other men?am i so wrong to be unsure of her and let her know?
2007-01-12 02:43:36 · 8 answers · asked by brian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Those who are unfaithful tend to be less trusting. Leave her and clam your life.
2007-01-12 02:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by dominicaquilino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have issues; in that neither one of you seem to be able to trust each other....OR feel secure within yourselves. A relationship cannot survive under the conditions you state. You both seem to be wasting each other's time, playing games. Rather than take the initiative to work on yourselves in your own separate lives.
2007-01-12 02:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is trying to find someone else. Be honest with yourself. Gut feelings are usually correct. Also, cheaters with often accuse the other of cheating to get the heat off of themselves.
2007-01-12 03:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not wrong, you are acting normally because it really comes from her "joke"(?) from her mouth that she will meet other men tonight and she made website too and saying she is single, there are facts that you base your actions now, i suggest you tell this to her and if she dont respect and do reverse psychology on you, just remember to respect yourself and know who you are and on how you should be treated as a person and as a husband. she is the one who might/is not doing right here, and you are not, so dont de-worth yourself. your role as a husband as commanded in the bible, do.
2007-01-12 02:53:32 · answer #4 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Life is too short to play these silly games. Go find someone that you know is true. Let this woman go do her thing.
2007-01-12 02:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get counselling and doyou want to be with awoman who wants to play you she is seeing what you will put up with and she wants to dominate relationship you get treated the way you allow people to treat you try not contacting her and when she rings dont answer after few days you willsee who is paranoid
2007-01-12 02:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not, she has given you every reason to be paranoid. i would seriously rethink the relationship before i went to be with her, you deserve someone who will be faithful to you
2007-01-12 02:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if things are this bad...then you need to stay separated. just get a divorce and you two go your own ways.
2007-01-12 02:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋