Anxiety is leading me to belive that I fell out of love with my bf...Litterally over night....4 days before this all happened I wrote him a list of the 101 things that I loved about him and that was from my true feelings.....
My doc uped my dosage yesterday and do you think that I will feel like I am back in love with him again after the meds kick in?
I still like spending time with him and doing nice things for him....I think I just amalyze every move he makes and it is pissing me off cause I am analyzing it so much...Anxiety is terrible
2007-01-12 02:23:25 · 5 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i dont think you can fall out of love overnight. Sometimes people get down and blue and they may not feel the same as they did the day before but its not because your not in love. All kinds of things like anxiety, stress, hormones...play a big role in the way we see things. Give it a little time and those feeling will come pouring back as fast as they seem to have left but are really just hiding under the covers
2007-01-12 02:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok; we have some ground to cover. How long have you been together? What kind of meds are you taking? You shouldn't need medication to "keep you in love". If you aren't, you aren't. Are you in the "honeymoon" stage still and afraid of how things might turn out? Plus, why are you analyzing things? AND if everything thing he does makes you mad, that's an issue all on it's own. You need to ask yourself these questions before you go any farther. I've been there and done that and only YOU know your answers. Not your medication or your doctor, and if he's writing a script and going along with that, you NEED a NEW doctor.
2007-01-12 10:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say whether or not you will be in love with him again once your meds kick in, but I can say I relate. I've been having anxiety attacks since August and I've found that I worry too much and analyze anything and everything. I let a lot of stuff bother me. It causes grief in my relationship because I don't think he quite knows how to handle it when I get that way, nor does he make a huge effort to understand and learn why I get that way and what he can do to help me through it.
I hope you will be in love with him again...but I don't think medication should have anything to do with altering how you really feel about someone. It should come naturally!
2007-01-12 10:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time being too analytical can get you in trouble. Before you start putting your life in the hands of others or starting a relationship with someone - you need to make sure your all together upstairs so that you know the decisions your making are sound. My girlfriend got on meds and looked at the guy she was with and couldn't understand what she saw in him <--- we all were telling her he was a loser. So good luck sweetie! Enjoy life!
2007-01-12 23:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If this guy has half a brain, he'll realize what you're up to and run for the hills.
2007-01-12 10:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋