Has anyone ever wanted your childs father back into your life just becasue you love him and have a family together and just want to get that puzzle together again after 10 years or so? How did you do it?
2007-01-12 02:04:16 · 5 answers · asked by Pooh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have not experienced that. but i think it is possible, and how to do it? i guess you have to think first that what you are about to do is for him to be back in your life and its worth it, i guess you have to woo him then. its worth it. it could mean life time together til old times... its worth it dont be ashame, i will not .
2007-01-12 02:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by blue violet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I divorced my husband 20 years ago. I still loved him as a person but I was so unhappy living with him. Our personalities just did not go together. We have a son and daughter together and they are grown now. I remarried about 2 years after the divorce and I am still happy in the marriage today but he waited 12 years before he remarried. He is much better matched with his new wife. I will always care about him but we are both much happier people in our new lives. Try to move on and find happiness either in a life as a single parent or remarry and be happy.
2007-01-12 10:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I still liked my ex{he passed away in 2001} and we got along because we had a son together we loved each other at the time but things didn't work out. so you can like them but there was a reason that you two didn't stay together so I think you need to move on instead of living in the past and thinking it would be better to have a family together you made a baby together but some people aren't made to be in a relationship. you see there had to be a reason you didn't stay together right? so think about it. before acting on your thoughts of wanting to be a family.
2007-01-12 10:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by heavenlyangelscent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was divorced 15 years ago and well to this day I love her....but when we did try to reconcile...we found that to many questions were there and to much damage done to make it work.
You know sometimes when a house catches fire you can still remodel it....but then again sometimes the damage is to extent and it has to be tore down.
So in saying that....the question is how much is the relationship damaged? And remember what works for me won't work for you....people and relationships are different.....only you and him can make it work and find a way for it to work if that's the right thing for the 2 of you.
Good luck
2007-01-12 10:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, nada ,nope ,not a chance, no way , when hell frezes over.....
2007-01-12 10:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by auntie s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋