She caught me looking at strap-ons and got upset. I calmed her down, and told her it was because I wanted her to use them with me. She didn't really indicate that she would do it. She was concerned that I thought she was inadequate. I told her I wanted to talk to her before, but was afraid she'd get upset. She wants me to ask before I look at them again. I want to keep her happy, because I love her, but I want to fulfill my fantasy too. Infidelity is out of the question. How do I approach her again?
2007-01-12 01:58:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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Here's the link to my previous question.
2007-01-12 02:04:02 · update #1
There is a very good video on this subject called "Bend Over Boyfriend" by sex educator Carol Queen. You might try getting that and seeing if you can help you.
You should also make sure your wife knows there is nothign inadequate with her, and you should both talk about fantasies. Tell her that this is a fantasy of yours and that you are willing to do one of her fantasies in trade, or just talk abotu what fantasies you two might have. Doing some good research on the subject might help, and it is a good idea to tell her that even if she says no you refuse to be unfaithful to her to fulfill this.
2007-01-12 12:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by bishonenofcacophony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This belongs in the gay section, can't say I'd blame her, I'd freak if my hubby wanted me to stick something up his *** too. There are alternatives like anal beads that she may be more comfortable with if you are just looking for the sensation. A strap on is a bit too much.
2007-01-12 12:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask her what her fantasies are and then talk to her about your PS i bought one last night hehehehehhe
2007-01-12 02:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by 1401 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking a straight sex question in the gay category.....why?
2007-01-12 02:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...you're nasty if you want a woman to use a strap-on with you. Are you borderline gay??
2007-01-12 02:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by David 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
reported ...adult content
2007-01-12 02:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋