I don't know how to have sex, what do do, blow jobs, etc. When I say that I have never done ANYTHING witha boy, I MEAN IT... I find it kind of embarassing. I have no clue what to do. But he does... thats why Its so embarassing. Please give some advice...
2007-01-12 01:51:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I want to lose my virginty to him. I know that he is the person who I want to be with. We know eachother so well. I've already told him. But, why does it feel weird when he says : "I'll teach you"?
2007-01-12 02:02:38 · update #1
No do not feel like a loser.
If you are really desperate you may use my messenger.But not for nonsense ,only if you have real questions,OK?
What you could do upfront is tell him and if he really cares he would not mind at all.
Good luck on you,and it will work out.
When do you think was his first experience?
How did he feel then?
Rob.xxx
2007-01-12 02:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pffft!! I would say don't be embarrassed but I don't think that's going to help you. If he cares for you then don't worry so much, he'll show you how to do things. Not saying that it's the truth but I would think that quite a few guys who have just realised that they are homosexual have never done any of these things either. So don't feel like you are a loser because there are others out there in the same boat, homo and hetero. I wouldn't give you a personal how-to guide on the Internet but there are SO many websites out there that can help and teach you the finer nuances of homo sex.
I don't know where you live but check out the website below here. It has links for a few things you may be interested in. Just one thing that I will tell you though, WEAR A CONDOM. Obviously you're not stupid but protection is key nowadays. I've actually checked it out and if I didn't read so muh in general then I wouldn't know but this seems like a good guide. Hope this helps you. Good luck and have fun!!
2007-01-12 10:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by dancer_luver2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all i want you to relax because after all you are not the only virgin in the world.I understand you perfectly because i'm a virgin myself and some times i think about the day i will have my first sex and how it will feel like. God is his own infinite mercy provides for all our needs and when the time comes for you and your boyfriend to have sex, the body will naturally secret natural fluids to moisturise your private parts so that you can be on cloud nine. Just remember not to do it against your will otherwise your conscience will prick at you and you won't enjoy it. Also remember that the first sex is very important because you will always remember the person who broke your virginity. All the best.
2007-01-12 10:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by arabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's a nice guy too. A lot of men I know are afraid of virgins because they don't wanna go through the trouble of scrapes and bruises during sex and maybe some instant emotional connection after sex. But if he says "i'll teach you" then it shows that he's patient and wants to help you grow. Sex is very precious, good and beneficial to us. Take your time. And if you're freaking out a bit, tell yourself its ok because it is your first time! Remember it and enjoy yourself. And don't be embarassed of any "mishaps" etc.
2007-01-12 12:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by kidkill18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone starts out in life a virgin, so there is nothing about being a loser to it.
Like most things in life, you'll learn by doing. If your bf is patient and caring, things will be just fine. If he is anything but wonderful towards you, then stop what you're doing immediately.
2007-01-12 10:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I applaud you, in a world where being a virgin is unheard of. It is very refreshing to hear that there are girls who are still virgins. My advice to you is once you lose it you can never get it back. Are you really sure that he is the one. If he really cares about you and understand what a priceless gift he is being given he will be gentle and will not care about not being experienced.
2007-01-16 08:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by satan_daughterone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay special attention to the b job part that is very important and there is a test on it.
other then that why not get some movies invite some friends and see who can do what that is the same as the movie have fun join a group make it a group event you can all learn together and the fun wow your going to love it
2007-01-14 17:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be moment that you will feel a bit uncomfortable but its normal, everyone in here is right tell your bf its your first time...there is nothing to be a shamed about, but are you sure you want to give it up to this current bf....about the bj don't worry once your there it will come natural....just helpful tip don't forget to play with the B-A-L-L-S too......*wink* clam down trust me once your there everything will turn out OK...
Good Luck...we rutting for you!!!
2007-01-12 10:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a virgin does not make you a loser. It means you value yourself too highly to give it up to just anyone -- and that makes you a winner. He should value you for the precious being you are. If you are worried about this, remember -- you do not have to do this if you don't want to. Wait until you are sure.
2007-01-12 09:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by world_gypsy 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Tell him what you just told us, only leave out the loser part. Ask him to show you what to do. If he really likes you and you know each other well enough (which I hope you do) he will already know or at least have sensed your inexperience and he will be patient with you.
Peace
2007-01-12 09:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by DontPanic 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋