he says he doesnt want me to because it takes time. he want to travel all year long. want me to leave my city and come and live with him. telling me the world going to end he just has 2 to 5 years to do what he needs to do. i question him about it and he claims he doesnt have any condition
2007-01-12 01:51:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we been together for 1 year and he's already ready to get married this would be his fourth marriage
2007-01-12 01:52:09 · update #1
thank you guys so much for your help and support this situation is starting to stress me out
2007-01-12 02:01:30 · update #2
he suggest to me that maybe we can live in a van .aslo he does alot of testing in the hospital for money .i dont know but it just seems to me that he is desperate for money
2007-01-12 02:12:10 · update #3
he always tell me that it was other person fuahgt why they ended up divorce but really i dont know anything about these other women
2007-01-12 02:17:20 · update #4
he even suggest making a straw house to live in it seems to me that he wants to be cheat as can. i even explian to him i dont like relocating. see i lived with my mother and her bf kick me out so it like i know what it is to be homeless and i would hate to be in the same situation
2007-01-12 02:19:37 · update #5
Be real careful on this one. Actually run, as fast as you can.
2007-01-12 01:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. he's been married four times already? that in itself should be some kind of warning. you two only met a year ago and he is ready to get married. hon...do yourself a favor and just leave him. go to school and go after your dream of becoming a nurse. it sounds like this guy has some serious issues. how does he know that the world is going to end in 2.5 years? did he talk to God personally? Cause only God (or whatever you choose to call him) only knows the exact time that it is going to happen. i think that you are doing the right thing by questioning where this relationship is going and how fast it is going. if a man will not support you in such a good career choice such as nursing..then he has some serious self esteem issues and maybe even threatened by the fact that you could make more money than he does. just do yourself a favor...dump him. if he is not willing to give up his dreams then why should you?
2007-01-12 02:44:52 · answer #2 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him NOW and go to school to become a nurse. Are there any similarities as to why his previous three marriages failed and your current relationship? What you described does not sound good, and you need to get out. You will be much happier in the long run. Good Luck
2007-01-12 02:13:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want a guy who has been through 3 previous marriages? That does not sound like a good track record. Live out your dream or else you may never truly be happy.
2007-01-12 02:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by "the Otter" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!!!!!!!!!! You'd better work on fulfilling your life long dream....this guy isn't gonna be around forever....he's a nut case....let him travel....you work on your nursing career..and, if your paths cross again....then so be it...... ever heard this saying:
"If you love something,
set it free, if it comes back to you,
it's yours....if not, it never was."
Don't throw your life down the drain for ANY one.....you're #1.....and do what's best for yourself!!!
2007-01-12 01:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live in a van????
no honey, go to school. Let him live his weird life...and go get tested for std's.
Be careful...seriously run
2007-01-12 02:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to control you and keep you financially dependant on him. It's YOUR life not his. Go to school now.
2007-01-12 01:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋