A woman can get anything she wants if she is nice and gives a men all the sex he wants. There are some decent men out there so don't take offense. I am lucky I am married to a wonderful man who puts other things first however he is still controlled by his needs to some extent. I am not a man hater only certain TYPES of men. I believe that womens liberation has taken away much of our power. Believe me we are powerful and one of the reasons IS that men are so controlled by their sexual needs. I think it is a sad thing that men are so like that. I I also believe that if you put a naked woman in front of the majority of men Married or not and IF they think they can get away with it they would jump on it. SAD SAD SAD. I understand some women are the same but not to the extent.
2007-01-12 01:38:55 · 14 answers · asked by Tera F 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think this has more to do with nature than anything else. The basic need or reason for disparate sexual drives is because a man wants to spread the seed as far and as widely as possible, have as many offspring as possible,.
Humans do have a reptilian cortex around which the modern brain has built up, nothing is discarded. This is why men are more aggressive and want more mates, want to be alpha males with the maximum number of females possible.
As humans evolve, this tendency has reduced to some extent, and yes, if a woman uses her mind to use her body to get a man to do her bidding, does that make her any different from the marauding men?
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2007-01-12 02:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by Starreply 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, by extension of your theory would that be why some women who aren't of a religious bent are so against male homosexuals? Because they can't feign some sort of sexual interest in them and get them to jump through hoops, they actually have to be nice, think, and treat them like a PERSON instead of a sexual addict who will do anything for the suggestion of some "attention" regardless whether or not you will actually "pay up"?
Sexual Blackmail is not a good "power" to have or attempt to exert over someone. It's nothing but manipulation and dishonesty and only the most base of individuals revel in controlling someone that way.
Womens liberation is a good thing for both sexes, it takes away pretexts, it forces both sides to do "equal" shares, as it should be, and exposes those who would be dishonest and try to sleaze their way through life to stand up and stop trying to use others. I have absolutely no respect for those who try to "sleep" their way through life when all the others of us are fighting and working our way.
2007-01-12 10:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any powerful motivational drive will do this to most people.
I had an ex-gf who would have killed to keep a publically acceptable boyfriend. It was that important to her.
Sex, food, survival instincts are extremely powerful. Just because yours work differently than a mans, it's a bit myopic and self-centered to assume that makes you more in control. Given the right motivators, you too would do things you wouldn't normally do. How many women, in the heat of a sexual encounter, have made really bad choices about making certain their partner was using protection? Same difference, only the timing of when the motivations become seriously overpowering.
When drives hit is different in men than women, that makes us different, if doesn't make one superior to the other.
Just so you know, in a number of cases, I was faced with a decision of breaking my ethical code (say by lying or cheating) with the certain reward of sex, and turned in down. Several in the heat of the moment. I had one woman who I know would have slept with me on the spot had I said I loved her. I was very attracted to her and probably infatuated, but having only known her a month, I couldn't and wouldn't say I loved her just to get into her pants.
2007-01-12 09:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I don't really believe that. At least for myself. I've never been led astray by any kind of sexual drive I have had. I believe it's more how a person is raised than what sex they are. If a man is raised to believe that he needs and constantly want sex, he most likely will act upon that.
2007-01-12 12:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by bishonenofcacophony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly agree with most of what you say. But in my case, it is my wife's heart what controls me, because she loves me as much as I love her. And even when we've only been married for 7 years (we are still in our honeymoon), my opinion is that of a newly wed.
I just can't have eyes nor mind for other women. I have everything I need at home.
2007-01-12 09:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Half the population. Maybe men have just pulled the wool over your eyes though and just want you to think that. I think all you need is a good..... cup of tea.
2007-01-12 09:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that everything is loosey-goosey these days. But one thing seems to be true: many men think with their little head rather than their big one.
Seen the TV show "Boston Legal" ???
2007-01-12 09:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by poutine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are, testosterone and our natural male sex drive that significantly outguns womens (until they reach their 30's or 40's anyway) makes us that way.
2007-01-12 09:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jason D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why post a straight sex question in the gay category...something you want to tell us?
2007-01-12 11:02:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a biological imperative, sweetie. Deal with it.
2007-01-12 09:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋