I have been reading posts on here and wonder if its ok for women to snoop on men. Confront them and spy?
2007-01-12 01:27:16 · 8 answers · asked by Java Queen 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When a woman has had her Heart ripped out of her chest a few times then yes I think its perfectly just fine to find out ALL you can on this man especially if your looking for a lifetime companion. The trust issue can come later when you dig up this information. Too many couples go into to it with the romantic fantasy that all is well on planet earth and usually one of them gets burned. Yes I feel to a certain extent its normal to snoop around as long as you don't get caught and if you do , tell the truth. They are probably doing to you also. Duh. . .
2007-01-12 02:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should be asking yourself, WHY am I thinking I have to snoop or spy on my man? must be something wrong there with the trust, time to realize what's driving the lack of trust and confront that issue first.
2007-01-12 01:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by yawhosucs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason for you to want to snoop? Or is it that you're insecure? All that leads to is mixed up feelings, not including the time you would spend on doing the actual snooping. I'd back away!
2007-01-12 01:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you snoop, you are being deceitful, and you are looking for something, and you will probably find it. If you have reason to not trust someone, then maybe you should not be with them. Would you want him to snoop on you? Don't do it. Unless you are ready to end the relationship.
2007-01-12 01:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lottalady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like your man to snoop and spy on you? Nobody likes that..a relationship should be based on respect and trust.
2007-01-12 01:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say from a mans point of view that if you want the relationship to survive then I would not suggest it....unless of course you have a yuppy for a man.
If my Girlfriend was to do that I would send her packing in a moment....your basically telling him that you don't and won't trust him and that's life so get used to it.....it won't work!
2007-01-12 01:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out for what you find!!
2007-01-12 01:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i actually say no to that you wouldn't like it if he was putting you in line so do not do it to him
2007-01-12 01:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋