I have a good friend who has fallen in love with someone who doesn't correspond to her feelings.
They got out for a while, and after that he hasn't called her back anymore. I told her to forget him and to focus on other guys who lilke her and would like to be with her.
The point is that she is very attractive and there are many guys who are craving for her attention, but without any succes.
She says that no other guy could compare with the one she loves.
Is she right in her decision? I know that it's her life and so on, but I feel sorry for her because she doesn't want to get out with anybody.
Please, tell me, what has happend to her and how could I help her?
2007-01-12 01:09:12 · 34 answers · asked by AnneMarie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She is just blind , to the fact that he doesn't feel the same way about her, just be there for her and let her find out for her own.
2007-01-18 08:07:58 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Daria
It sounds like your friend just needs a bit f time before she jumps into anything after something which has clearly affected her.
this is probably the right thing for her and she shouldn't be rushed in order to come to terms with how she is feeling.
Be as supportive as you can as her friend and I am sure when the time is right she will surprise you because then she will know what it is she wants.
she also might not want you to worry and be so concerned about her, as there may well be certain things that she cannot tell you.
don't force it & just let her take her own time
you sound like a caring person so I am sure you mean well & it is difficult to know what best to do sometimes isn't it?
goodluck
2007-01-18 12:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, the girl is Sprung!! and she is attatched to him physically & mainly emotionally.
Only she can bring herself from out this funk; in her own time. And, have u guys ever thought it's not just her. He could actually be leading her on w/his mix feelings. He's not rejecting her but kind of just leaving her a lone to stew. You know what I mean; instead of giving her closure by saying "Ok it's over" or whatever term to say lets move on. He's just leaving an open wound.
2007-01-12 01:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by Spotlight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is the kind of girl that has been let down way too much in her life. This new guy has just done it again and she just needs to lick her wounds. She cannot stand rejection and is trying to get close to this guy for approval. She will get over him. Stand by her ok and tell her she is "No guys puppet" and deserves a loving and caring and conciderate guy.
2007-01-12 01:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people fall in love you can't help them as they say love is blind, you can tell her to forget him he ant worse it, why don't you take her out just to make hem joules, by her the roses and read her some poem in the class, where every body is there, and see how it goes if he care for her, will come a round,
2007-01-18 08:23:36 · answer #5 · answered by badboyisawickedman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, sometimes people have to eventually learn from their mistakes. She is in love, or so she claims, and no one can help for whom their heart belongs to and falls for. if it is the wrong choice, she will have to realize it on her own. what she needs from you is to just be her friend and not criticize her because i am sure other people are telling her the same thing. you have said what you had to say, just be there for her the day she realizes she that he is not for her. best friends are supposed to look out for one another but also be there to support them through all the things that happen to them. just be her shoulder, and give her an ear. even though you don't approve, she knows but it wont change it. she just needs you and she will wake up and move on!
2007-01-12 01:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a bit at ur friends place so I advice u leave her alone at this point of time a person would like to live alone n divert her mind towards something els but not guys
2007-01-17 02:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has been blinded by love.
she just cant see that this guy isnt right for her.
HOWEVER, you seem way to controlling about this!
its her life, her decision, she knows more about him than you do, so if she wants to be with him leave her to it!
she will work it out on her own.
if you really want to help her, just support her in what she does.
dont try to control her.
and feeling sorry for her? i would be insulted if one of my friends said that about me.
hope that helps
EDIT: i would say you sound like a good friend caring about her a lot
2007-01-12 01:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by john9999999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just feeling rejected because she is beautiful and could have many men, she is probably just like this just now because he's not got the feelings for her. She will get over it though.
2007-01-12 01:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by vickicraig86@btinternet.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is just infatuated with him and until she is completely hurt by him she can't get over it. She still thinks he is good and as long as that is in her head she won't get over it. She will have to learn about it the hard way. You are a good friend to be concerned.
2007-01-12 01:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋