I read some of the others comment; some said to except it, some said it's human nature. Oh. well......(for them) I'm tired of women defending men inadequacy's.
It's outright disrespectful & there is no excuse for it. Apparently these men (which there is alot of them) are down right disrespectful & selfish. And, I don't understand it (I have one that does the samething) and he's about to loose me for GOOD (PERMANTELY). He wouldn't appreciate it, if someone disrespected his mom, sister, niece or anybody else that he may care about-but you'd do it to me (you said u care for me & said u'd protect me/ how about start by protecting my feeling/stop hurting them-he aint the finest thing; I'm sure i can do 100% better-he really does'nt have much going on. )But, yet he feels he can treat me just any ole way. That's getting a little reptitious & old; and its time for a change. It's a new year & time for new prospects.
Think about it ladies, when they first met us...they did everything they could to win our hearts and attention but once they get us. They are not satisfied; its like ok- I got you. The quest is over.....and whatever. Well, I say whatever I know everyman is not the same but some may even do it just to bother u (and be internally smiling on the inside just to get to u).Well, I say its time for a change; and time for me to take my OWN advice.
And, we could be petty & look at other men. But, y do that we are "Grown" w/ a capital G -
Either u want to make my life miserable or make it good; and if u do stuff like that u choose to be petty & ignorant. How can u have a life w/this person- u have kids & he's still acting like a kid, come on grow up/control your urges- u can a look at a person w/out turning your head & following them w/your eyes....
2007-01-12 01:29:24
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answered by Spotlight 1
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That has always been my big question too. I was told that men are "visually" stimulated and attracted to all things in life, where women are stimulated by touch. So if anything attractive walked by ........whether it be a woman or a plate of steak and lobster, men's attentions are immediately drawn towards it. At the same time though I do think men should show some respect when out with their woman that they keep their attention and eyes of them and not outside stimuli.
2007-01-12 01:20:56
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answered by Amber 6
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Being of a definite faith has no longer something to do with how good a individual is on the interior. i'm happy the new child did no longer ought to bear any added hypocrisy and brainwashing. once you're ill, you're ill and loss of life/ailment does not discriminate because of the fact of religion. we are all human beings and suseptible to any raging, detrimental ailments and ailments. After Armageddon we will not ought to concern approximately this, OR fake non secular CULTS any further for God will take care and do away with this badness from his introduction for good. Your tale, in spite of the undeniable fact that heartfelt, replaced into too winded and you're putting too plenty right into a faux non secular doctrine. I purely thank God that she did no longer choose a blood transfusion because of the fact if she did, that ought to have actually brought about her loss of life because of the fact the witlessness have not got faith in blood transfusions to keep lives. I racket and a recommendations-controling cult.
2016-10-07 01:16:42
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answered by grumney 4
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If he is doing that to you then you need to do the same back to him! When i 1st met my husband - 16 years ago - for some reason he thought that i wanted to hear his comments on the pair of **** walking past that he was looking at. I then started to comment on the men i saw and he soon stopped doing it.
He will soon see exactly how you feel when you start staring at other males.
2007-01-12 03:11:43
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answered by ashwellgirl 2
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It is not only men that check out the opposite sex. I am a woman and l like to look myself when l see a cute looking guy. I honestly feel it is just human nature. There is nothing wrong with looking as long as you don't touch the merchandise. Don't stress it's completely normal behaviour.
2007-01-12 01:25:03
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answered by kazzadanni 4
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My husband says that the female body is so beautiful with the curves, that he just likes to look. And also, just because a man likes to look at the female body, doesn't mean he is a cheater.
2007-01-12 01:15:40
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answered by godbeyn 2
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hmm, if I see a goodlooking female (I'm married, female and very straight) that I think my husband will want to look at, I stare at her too, and point her out. It gives him the chance to look and since I usually point them out, he doesn't look for long, and usually says that they look like a ho. Then we have have a good laugh. You just have to not take it personally, everyone likes to look at pretty people.
2007-01-12 01:13:48
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answered by bhriannh 2
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Well, men are visual - so they like to look at attractive women. But, a man can control his actions. If it hurts your feelings, then he is acting disrespectfully towards you by not controlling himself. Plus, our society makes it seem ok for people to "look but don't touch". (I don't agree) I think it is just being lustful, which equals disrespect in my book.
2007-01-12 01:13:53
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answered by Amy 2
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because other than us, there are still other women around. they are just checking them out so they say. so you can check other men too. that way your man feels exactly the same way you do when he stares at other woman.
2007-01-12 01:12:50
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answered by mela 3
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Good question. My man does the same thing. I think its just men. I used to get so mad. Now I just let it fly, even though it kills me inside. Or on the contrary, I now check out other men!
2007-01-12 01:10:10
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answered by Java Queen 3
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