How can we abort a 1to2 month pregnancy without tearing the hymen?

Question

My gf is a virgin ,but I thing I have made her pregnant!!please help me!what should I do?We want to abort it without the HYMEN being torn.

Answer 1

merci

Answer 2

Let me start out by saying I am not advocating abortion. Please seriously consider the ethical, physical and emotional consequences of abortion and do your research before deciding that this is what you want to do.

Many of these posters are obviously uneducated when it comes to sex education because virgins can and do get pregnant. It isn't the most common scenario but it happens more often than you think. All it takes for a woman to get pregnant is for sperm to meet up with her egg. Sperm swims so if its close by, nature will take over and it will find its way. This means that when a guy and a girl are fooling around and there is skin to skin contact, pre-ejaculation and ejacualtion fluids can still enter the vaginal opening EVEN IF THERE IS NOT PENETRATION. This is how virgins get pregnant.

Sperm can enter the vagina without the hymen being broken. But she should be aware that the hymen is thin and delicate and often breaks from nonsexual activity without penetration. If she uses tampons, or is involved in certain sports or if a finger was inserted in her vagina the hymen could have been broken already. Whichever way you look at it, this girl may be a pregnant virgin but this doesn't gaurantee that her hymen wasn't torn already. See the below link.

Now to answer your question about abortion that wont affect the hymen. You could go to a doctor and ask for a medication abortion. She would take a pill that would cause her to miscarry the fetus. This option is only available in the first trimester (within the first 60 days) and it has no effect on the condition of the hymen.

So do the research and be wise in your decsion.

Answer 3

there is no way to abort without the hymen being torn. Not that I can think of anyway.
It is possible to be pregnant and a virgin. As long as the male ejaculates and the ejaculate gets even close to the vagina, the semen can find it's way up to the female's eggs. Seriously people, don't you listen in Health Class???

Answer 4

before this question can be answered, how is ur girlfriend pregnant and also a virgin. but to try to answer, i dont think u will be able to abort the baby without tearing the hymen!! u might as well have had the sex!

Answer 5

Is her name Mary? Either you're lying about not having sex with her or she's lying to you about being a virgin and messing around on the side.

Regardless, most girls these days have a torn hymen from their activities like horseback riding, gymnastics, sports, etc.

Answer 6

I highly doubt I'm responding to a serious question, but how is she pregnant with an intact hymen? Is it at all possible she's just extremely late?

Answer 7

Unless she is the second virgin mary (which she isn't) I dont think she can be pregnant and be a virgin...how old are you? I can't stand how so many kids get pregnant and just throw out the word abortion like its nothing, sickening!

Answer 8

Don't be a whimp take responsibility for the the creation you have both made, and love your baby till you gir, it's one of the sweetest feelimgs a father can have, don't abott, I'm not a religious nut.

Answer 9

She can't be a virgin and be pregnant. You have to have sex to get her pregnant. Just wait until she misses a period and if she doesn't miss any periods than she's not pregnant.

Answer 10

OK this has to be a joke, but I am going to give you an answer. You know a person is not pregnant if she is a virgen, what you really need to know is the joke only makes you look dumb.

Answer 11

Forget about the hymen, it's not that important.