2007-01-12 00:37:51 · 18 answers · asked by seductive77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Is that what you want for your child?
- To tell him that you wanted him/ her despite that his/ her father already belongs to somebody else.
- Do you want to rock the family that the man is already involved with and maybe their children?
- Do you think the man can appreciate that?
On top of that, if your purpose is to get that man.... could you trust him? Maybe he does too you the same as he did now.
2007-01-12 00:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by John Th 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends what your definition of "okay" is. If you do, you should be prepared to raise your child as a single mother. It is doubtful that he will leave his wife (and if he does, he may resent you if he feels that you trapped him) and it would be a very difficult situation to explain to your child. Maybe you should examine why you are with this guy in the first place. There is no reason to be with a guy who would cheat on his wife - what guarantee do you have that he won't cheat on you? Having a baby by him seems like it would be far more trouble than it is worth and might result in a lot of resentment from your child towards you for making such a bad decision. Children are not disposable and having one is a lifetime emotional, physical and financial commitment...
2007-01-12 08:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see ...
You want a baby from a man who lies to and cheats on his wife.
He obviously has no respect for her or the commitment they made.
Is there some reason you think he is going to treat you and your child better than he does his own wife?
2007-01-12 10:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that would make YOU an alduteress, him an adulterer and your baby a bastard (that's what the term bastard means...child born out of wedlock to a whore of a married man).
2007-01-12 08:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not he is married,what gives you the right to break his marriage up? leave him alone if he isn't happy with his wife then he needs to get a divorce untill then stay away from him.
2007-01-12 08:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is what you want and you are the one to take care of it.
Do not ex[pect the father to help you.
There are a lot of them out there.
2007-01-12 08:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bring a child into a mess like that?
2007-01-12 08:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure - if you want to raise a kid all on your own and don't care about providing your baby with two moral and responsible parents.
2007-01-12 08:43:18 · answer #8 · answered by whatever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't imagine his wife will care for that much. What goes around, comes around. You'd better duck...bogus post or not.
2007-01-12 08:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what...? what will you tell ur child when he/she grows up then? ur daddy is a married man. ur mommy have an affair w ur daddy..so here you are.
very interesting hmmm?
2007-01-12 08:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋