If only men knew what we have to go through when TTC. They seem to just have a nonchalant attitude about it. I am on day 12 of a 26 day cycle and I should ovulate tommorow. I wanted to bd last night but hubby didn't and we had a big arguement about it. We talked this morning and agreed to try tonight but I wonder if it's too late!! I had o pains last night and I know the egg doesn't last long..it figures, the one night we should have done it and it got screwed up because of an arguement. I feel so depressed right now. I have no o pains today and wonder if I've already ovulated and missed it. This is so frustrating!! Is there still a good chance I could get pregnant??
2007-01-12 00:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You guys are right. I am stressing myself and him waaay too much over this. I feel bad now. The good news is that my Clearblue Easy Fertility Monitor showed ovulation this morning so it looks like I didn't miss it. I think after this cycle I will be taking a break from TTC. I'm tired of it.
2007-01-12 00:55:41 · update #1
Plz don stress too much abt this
I too was like u till last month, Inspite of hard trying i was nt able to make it. Bt nw i have stopped stressin.
So plz b cool n take sex enjoyable ...don plan ..if u plan, it might nt happen.
Anyways u still have time..it is nt tht u can get prego only during the ovulation period. U can get preg any time.
So relax.....This stress might cause damage to a good relationship.
Gud luk!
2007-01-12 00:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by prity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he isn't ready for a baby.
BTW, the egg is fertile for 24 hrs. If you have intercourse tonight, there is a good chance you could become pregnant. Just don't tell HIM that. You are probably putting an awful lot of pressure on him without realizing it. Good luck.
2007-01-12 00:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it must be stressful for your mate not to be as interested as you are in getting pregnant. I didn't have any trouble getting pregnant (thanks to my genes) but I always wondered if my husband really cared either way. Just remember guys aren't as good at showing emotions as women are and a lot of times they take a nonchalant attitude towards it which to us women can be frustrating. Sometimes I wanted to say to my husband DON'T YOU KNOW WHAT IT TAKES TO GET PREGNANT?!!??
But they know and they just take a more 'relaxed' attitude about it. Try to adopt your husbands attitude and just relax!
2007-01-12 01:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Troopers_Gurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look hon you need to relax!!! Yeah I'm not sure if its too late but I do know this-if the woman is all worked up and upset that makes it harder to get pregnant. Your husband is probably starting to feel like he has "perform". You guys need to do what ever you do to relax and have fun together thats when you will be most likely to get pregnant.
2007-01-12 00:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop stressing about it. You need to relax, and stop trying to make sex timed. When you try so hard, sometimes even if you time it perfectly you still don't get pregnant. I'm not saying to not chart your cycle, but stop stressing hubby about it and let it happen more naturally.
2007-01-12 00:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Aisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the hurry? Is this how you want your kid to be told he was conceived? Maybe the guy wasn't in the mood, or had a bad day at work or something just upset him. Why can't you wait till next month?
2007-01-12 00:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by guicho79 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
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