he just says come here and drop ya pants , i know i likr to be spontainius but come on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-12 00:21:57 · 25 answers · asked by justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tell him you want foreplay.
2007-01-12 00:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The same reason women can't understand why men ARE like a switch. Do you women EVER think about the other side? And YES I know what foreplay is I'm an expert at it. On the other hand it would be NICE if the women ACTED like a switch.
How about maybe when we least expected you chase us and not once every 300 years. On a regular. I understand women are like butterflies. The harder you chase them the more elusive they become. To catch one you must be still and let it approach you. That said I find myself asking why do we always have to sit still? It's a compromise. Guys learn foreplay and learn new levels of patience but YOU gals need to step up to the plate know your role as well.
You chase him for a bit and I guarantee he'll be a crock pot lover just like you. More and more guys aren't doing the "carrot/stick" routine anymore. And it's funny because when guys finally wake up and stop chasing all of a sudden his woman is like what's wrong?
Men bleed all of this attention on you. And not because we want something but because we know it will make you happy and we like to make you happy if it's for the right reasons. Sometimes we don't understand why but the core of us knows it pleases you and that's enough for us. But this constant men this men that !#@$!@$@ is REEEEEEALLY old.
If we were HALF as picky as you are there would be NO people on this planet.
That said, if he comes in like that all the time he needs to go cool school. But if he does it once in awhile take it as the humorous gesture it is and make the best of it. Because you are building memories for one day when it won't work anymore. :-)
2007-01-12 00:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cybrocupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my husband could never understand why 'The kids are asleep , get your knickers off' didn't nothing to turn me on. If I refused , he'd sulk for days and threaten to look elsewhere!
I hope you find a way to deal with it because I didn't , It screwed me up for years ( if you'll forgive the expression) ,
For men an orgasm is inevitable, for women it is illusive and we need a bit of persuasion.
2007-01-14 01:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps one of his rather charming friends has informed him that ladies are keen on the 'neanderthal' approach, whereby a man simply needs to bark an order and the lady will do his bidding. Whilst certain females appreciate this, it is common knowledge that the general femal population are in favour of controlled seduction, in order that there emotions are stirred as well as their loins.
Inform your chap that this is the case, and encourage him to develop his seduction skills; inform him that by doing so, you will both reap fulfilling rewards.
2007-01-12 00:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I get it that way - "Take off your clothes and don't say a word". Sometimes I get hours of foreplay and great sex. I just go with it because I know he's not selfish, but sometimes just gets horny as hell and wants to get off quickly. It evens out - actually more for me if I think about it.
2007-01-12 01:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dovie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, as a man i must tell you that we men needs to be satisfied especial by our women and we are not always in the mood. So if your man ask just give it to him. Also tell him that foreplay would not hurt. Don't make him go looking outside for what he has inside.
2007-01-12 00:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by JOEL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because men think differently then women. They can be turned on or off easily and figure women are the same. But we are made differently from men.
Isn't that difference what draws them to us in the first place. Your guy has GOT to understand for your relationship to grow.
2007-01-12 00:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by garynjanice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats just men for you hun! Just coz they get turned on at the slightest thing and spring into action doesnt mean we do!!!
you have to explain that perhaps he has a higher sex drive than you and that if he wants to have his way with you then he can bloody well bring on the foreplay! xx
2007-01-12 01:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Man I don't see what the issues are here. Perhaps you should vary it for him and give him oral next time he demands some action. Don't forget to fetch him a beer from the fridge when you have done....
2007-01-12 00:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by derbyandrew 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is because men are sexual beings and we as women and wives are more emotional beings... We think differently then men do but this is ok.... He needs to romance you first to get you in the mood and talk with him and tell him how you feel..... You both may need counseling as well.... If my husband told me to do that i would slap him lol
2007-01-12 00:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to drop his pants and run around the yard naked....in freezing weather. Then you'll see what you can do about warming him up.
2007-01-12 00:46:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋