i am a single lady not married , i get raped when i was 10 years and don't know if i lost my vergionity so am now 39 and am afraid to get married but now i find the right man and i love him, and decide to get married but am afraid of not to be a vergion, some thing else that am always bleeding all th time and am afraid of that too to be this a cancer and am afraid to go to the doctor or to be not a vergion either to be i have a cancer, please need your help what to do?
2007-01-11 23:30:51 · 4 answers · asked by maiskh 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Get to the Dr. You may have something as simple and harmless as a Myoma in your uterus. It is high time for a check-up.
That is the only way to put your mind and all its questions at ease.
2007-01-11 23:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by swiss girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so very sorry to hear that you were raped when you were 10 yrs old. My stepbrother molested me when I was 10 also. Sounds to me that you would benefit greatly from receiving counseling regarding being raped and your fear about not being a virgin. You need to see a Doctor. I understand you being afraid, but this needs medical attention. It is not normal for you to be bleeding as you are. It's better to find out what is wrong, than to just let it continue. It may be something as simple as needing to be put on birth control to regulate your bleeding cycle. Regardless, this has to be causing you much concern and fear. Wouldn't you feel better if you knew exactly what is causing this? Sure you would, then you won't have this problem causing you so much concern, stress and fear. The fear of the "unknown" is worse than the fear of the "known". Do you have a family member or best friend that can go with you to the Doctor? I know that I would feel less scared if someone went with me. Have you had a pap test within the last year? You should have one every year. If you can't afford it there are health care facilities that will do a pap test at a very low cost or no cost at all. Regardless, you really need to have one as soon as possible. There are many reasons you are bleeding non stop and ONLY a DOCTOR can tell you why. Please make an appointment as soon as possible. ~God Bless You~
2007-01-12 08:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing is to go to the Doctor
Most guys if they love you wont care that you are not a virgin anymore
Do you have a friend that can go with you, you dont need to tell them why you need to go to the doctors just that you want someone to come hold your hand as you hate going to doctors
I know it is really scary to go and find out about things like this
But it is best that you found out now
It is probably some problem that can be fixed really easy
2007-01-12 07:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by mary L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1ST OF ALL UR NOT A VIRGIN, CAUSE U WERE RAPED, 2nd of all, if ur bleeding that badly for soooo dam long, i think u need to see a doctor? something so seriously is goin on and ur askin yahoo? please go to the doctor!! ur old enough to get cancer, it doenst have an age limit! u dont have to have sex to get cancer, or maybe its just ur period
2007-01-12 07:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋