in affairs love should come frst or marriage,after mariage will come love or love frst should be happen?how we should trust this boys?
2007-01-11 22:39:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
love after marriage
2007-01-11 22:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by hulchul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every human being - not only human being but animals too - strive for love. It is a desire of everyone on the earth to love someone and to be loved by some one. - This is the basic facts since Adam and Eve.
Now, we have made an institution called marriage, to control over sexual emotions in love and to give it a formal acceptance of the society as a whole.
The primary of all is LOVE and not MARRIAGE. Love should always be first.
I hope u got what i want to convey. The way you have asked the question i can say that you are LOVE - LY girl.
All the best
2007-01-12 14:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by kaushik b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gud question.
according to me love is more important in life. cox if ur in love then u can live the rest of ur life wid him/her widout marriage just the way u love ur parents ur bro/sis.
in affairs love shud come frst then marriage. cox unless & untill u love & get 2 know a person he likes/deslikes how can marry a person. i think if it going 2 be an arranged marriage then a girl shud be bold enough 2 ask for time like 6 months as court ship period so that she shud understand him better. cox let it boy or girl everybody gives the best impression. like in the same way as u go 2 a marriage or any function u always wear the BEST of ur cloths 2 luk gud. & as far as trusting the boysis concerned i hv a very gud advise for u is check his frds, how they behave wid u. do check the kind of language they use & how they speak wid u. cox A MAN IS KNOWN BY THE COMPANY HE KEEPS.
got it
bye
2007-01-12 06:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good Q nadaa n ....
cant answer the trust thing for you... coz that is something u will have to decide based on the person you are with. but remember one thing, 'you dont live full if you dont learn to trust'. Not all boys are bad.
Two - effort should be to merge the love and marriage together. Marry the one you love.
And if you donot have anyone you love, or cant marry that person, once you get married, look at life positively , and you never know, you might fall in love with the person you married.
all the best to you. life is evermore tougher than it is for guys, this one I am sure of. may you get the love you are looking for.
2007-01-12 14:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by KingAnswer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage n love r two different things/ Marriage is the only war where u sleep with ur enemy/ Love of course has n edge over if it is true n supported by frienship/Friendship/between the male nfemale is over nabove all the relations{True friendship|} However it is difficult to find true friends but not impossible. Any doubts pl ask?
2007-01-13 11:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur in love than the culmination of this love is marriage. if ur married by arrangement then obviously u wil want to fall in love with ur partner. so it depends on the situation ur in.. and dear ther is no sure shot way of trusting any1. all u can do is follow ur heart.. some how a girl always has an instinct if her love is true to her or not and the other way is to ask ur best friends.. they are not blinded by love. they wil tell u the truth. trust ur heart and the ppl closest to u to lead u in the right direction....
2007-01-12 11:25:43 · answer #6 · answered by menakshistar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and marriage are dependable. If you love someone, then you will experience real love after marriage. If you are married to someone, then the best way to be happy is to love each other.
2007-01-12 14:05:30 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♪♫Priya_akki™♫♪♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is the main important factor whether it comes first or later in life.marriage is just a bond which keeps two people live together.if there is no love then there is no use of marriage.trust is the key to love.the person who loves can only trust the other person and this is called love
2007-01-12 06:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by Sunita P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I trust marriage is much more important than love with your wife. Ofcourse loves prevails after marriage. I am talking only about wifes mind it. Hopefully even girls will be having same in thier mind.
2007-01-12 06:49:12 · answer #9 · answered by vjkiran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN MARRIAGE OR IN AFFAIRS LOVE SHOULD COME FIRST AS LOVE IS THE MAIN ELEMENT WHICH BONDS TWO HEARTS INTO AN EVERLASTING RELATIONSHIP.MARRIAGE IS JUST A RITUAL IN THE SOCIETY AND CAN ONLY BE SUCCESFUL IF TWO HEARTS ARE UNDER INFLUENCE OF LOVE.
2007-01-12 06:57:19 · answer #10 · answered by TARUSH B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋