i have 2 friends i will call 1 jasmine and 1 mary!!! well jasmine is my besy friend of all time and mary is my best friend for about 2 years !! well i will start the story
i was on holidays and they went back to school and on the first day they were back to school i got an email of mary saying that all those things i said about her were not fair but she wasnt fighting wit me!! i didnt know what she was on about then i had another email from her saying alll the stuff that i had called her eg a slut and ugly!!! she said that jasmine had told her all these things then i was tlking to jasmine and she told me all the things i called her eg fat and ugly !!! now i did call them thses things but i told them thinking that they would not say anything!!! now mary has said she was soo sorry!!! but jasmine is still very thick about it and she said she wants to tlk to me today what am i going to say to her?????
2007-01-11 22:27:26 · 13 answers · asked by chaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
to be truthful you shouldn't have sayed things about some one you care about, excpecialy that. All you can do is go and talk with Mary, and beg for forgiveness, she will get over it after a while. although it may take some time. Now about jasmine, why did you insult her? did she say something bad about you? Even if she did it didn't make it right for you to say those things.... All you can do is take the yelling that you are going to get, after Mary blows off the smok, try and say your sorry, remember that freinds always make up afet sometime. Good Luck and next time don't say anything bad to anyone about anyone
2007-01-11 22:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Eddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically, it's ALL your fault.
you started all this. you don't really calla friend fat & ugly behind her back if you are her friend.
so slap yourself now before any advice is given.
firsly, i think you should be very very very apologetic. and emphasize that you wll never do it ever again and that you regretted what you did.
say all these SINCERELY.
secondly, make upto her, like have some long talking sessions with her & help her when necessary . show her that you care for her & not only b***h about her
thirfly, plead her to forgive you. say that it was only a moment of stupidness that you say those stuff and that a silly mistake by you doesn't worth ending a 2 year friendship.
ok good luck & make sure you don't make the same mistake again
always be kind to your friends, they worth your care.
if not you'll regret
2007-01-12 06:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Saffron Boudoir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question, what are you going to say to her? Well, you did the wrong thing. You never say anything like that to anyone about people that are supposed to be your best friends thinking that it won't get back to them. Girls in school are catty, malicious, vicious b!tches. Well, you have to think about it. But I would apologize and tell her that you really love her and that you are so upset that your words have hurt her.
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Then again after reading the question, it was Jasmine you were calling Mary those things to. So what does she want to talk to you about, she's the one who went running to Mary with this information, probably hoping to break up the friendship.
2007-01-12 06:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all talking behind someones back is just completely wrong and she has every right to be pissed off. your supposed to be this girls friend and you wanna run your mouth cause you don't think she will find out. thats just shady. best thing you can do is apolagise and hope your friend ship is not completely ruined. as for the other girl she just proved you can not trust her.
2007-01-12 06:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by chronus79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you will say, but I do know that you need to grow up. You have said that you DID say these things, so you brought it on yourself. Gossip destroys friendships very quickly, as the gossip(er) is not someone that can vbe trusted.
2007-01-12 06:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether you meant your comments to get back to them or not doesnt change the fact that you said them. Youre some friend that calls your friends fat and ugly behind their back.
All you can do is apologise and hope they forgive you.
2007-01-12 06:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by rodandalisonthompson 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her the truth and say that your sorry and didn't think that she'd take these things to the heart. Open up a bit and tell her the real truth.
2007-01-12 06:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by XD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First apologize and then give an explanation to sort out the matter.
2007-01-12 06:33:04 · answer #8 · answered by pellmell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her, loosing friend is the easiest thing but what important is keeping the relationship especially if you are best friends for a long time.
2007-01-12 06:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by The little "T" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I couldn't even finish reading this. If you feel so inclined to write so much, then at least make it interesting.
2007-01-12 06:31:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋