How do I win him back?

Question

My boyfriend split up with me recently because he said I got off with someone else while dating him (it isn't true) and that it's over through an e-mail and ever since he wont speak to me or wont answer my calls. How do I win him back? Is it worth winninh him back?

Answer 1

No, NO, no, and double NO!!

This sort that breaks up on a suspicion is a troubled soul. They will do it to you again and again.

Is that what you want? To get back with him and he breaks off with you and repeat?

No trust is the equal to no relationship.

Answer 2

If he reacts that badly then he's the one that's got something to hide. He's using what he thinks you did as the justification for him to leave.

It works like this: People are basically good, even the really bad ones, underneath it all they want to do the right thing -- it just gets very warped.

So your ex is basically good. But he's done something bad that you don't know about (or possibly a lot of little things) -- in fact, you might not think it was that bad, but he does. So he runs away because, being basically good, he doesn't want to do it to you again. He hides it and justifies it by saying it's your fault.

So, if you really want to get him back, you need to get face to face with him, in private, and say: "Tell me what you've done that I don't know about."

And if he will, then your relationship will be fixed (except he has to make up for the damage he's done), and if he still won't tell you, then it won't.

Of course, that would be an ideal opportunity for you to tell him all the things you did that you shouldn't have, and that he doesn't know about. (I'm sure you can think of something, might not be a biggee.)

Good luck.

Answer 3

That's weird. If you haven't gone with someone else, then he is unreasonable. I am not sure if this is the reason why he split up with you. But this is a silly thing so I don't think that you and him are working out. Since he just does not seem to do his best for his relationship. If I were you, I would not want him back in the first place.

Answer 4

He is using the excuse of you two timing him (typical male behaviour) so that you are the one at fault. If he wanted & loved you he would do anything to make you happy. Have a good think about why he is so worth getting back. It sounds like hes moved on so you should too! Best of luck!

Answer 5

well i bet ur b/f has a new woman and for nothing he wanted to break up with u so it's not worth to win him back what is the use if he left u now what are the % that he wont leave u next place, forget him and get a new one.

Good Luck

Answer 6

it sounds like ur guy was jus after an easy way out he knows u didn't do anythin but he's carryin on with this so he is the victim n gets the sympathy!! not worth it find a man who makes u his princess!!

Answer 7

Don't bother. clearly he was looking for an excuse to get rid of you and had his eyes on someone else. move on he is sooo not worth it.

Answer 8

no. he used this as an excuse to break up with u. he could have used somthing else, but he wanted to quit not because u went out with someone but because he just wanted to quit

Answer 9

If you have done nothing wrong he should really get his facts right before accusing you. If he won't listen then hes the one with the problem, find someone better i'd say.

Answer 10

Hiya,
I think he has decided your not the one for him and has used your cheating, true or not as a good excuse to end it, try and move on, i know it hurts but time will heal..xx..