like every single thing ? you'r bank account codes ?you'r e-mail passwords ? if they ask you who u calling every night ? do u tell them the truth ? EVERYTHING ?!?!? HONEST ?
2007-01-11 22:22:01 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is honesty about telling everything? Or is honesty more about telling the truth?
I can be honest without telling my wife my bank account pin number if she doesn't ask for it.
2007-01-11 22:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by k² 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Do I tell him if I've broken the vacuum by being stupid (sucked up a hot coal rom the fire!) -Yes, it affects him too.
Do I tell him if I think he's talking rubbish - sometimes, if I need to, in order to steer the conversation down a rational route
Do I tell him that I fancy a bloke at work - hell no! I have no intention of doing anything about it, and it would only hurt his feelings.
However, some of the things you mention implies that either he doesn't trust you OR he wants to control you completely. If the bank accounts are your sole accounts, he has no right to ask. Does he give you HIS bank accounts and passwords?
As a rule, if YOU would want to know something if the tables were turned, you ought to be telling him. If you have no desire to know his nightly calling habits or how he spends his cash, then why should he know yours?
Suggest you and your control-obsessed partner need to have an honest chat about why he feels he needs this info. Even IF you may have given him cause to be suspicious in the past, you can't live your life being spied on in lieu of trust.
2007-01-11 22:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am not calling anybody every night, so i guess im clean with one thing. i do not tell my bank account code or password to email because he never asked and i don't see why i need to do that. i have no secrets anyway. in all the rest - yes, i am 100% honest and i tell everything. every single thought
2007-01-11 22:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 21:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the honest 100% truth no i have not been a 100% honest in my relationships we never truly are i have slept with men that have girlfriends and wives that stayed with their partners after it and i've had friends cheating on their partners. no one is 100% honest if they say they are they're lying. well even tell little white lies cause we want to paint positive pictures of ourselves in other peoples minds so its ok to lie a tiny little bit just dont lie about the big stuff cause i dont care what anyone says it make take ten day or twenty years but you always get caught!!
2007-01-11 22:29:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its best to be honest with the big things (you know what your spouse finds important).
Like most people I spend a lot of time with conflicting opnions about things. Defining what the TRUTH is can sometimes be difficult, its best to make sure your honest with yourself before you hurt your LOVED ONE with inaccurate thoughts. If you do something that you know will upset them, but dosn't really matter in the scheme of things, its best not to tell them.
We all have our little secret moments, thoughts and desires, it is just a matter of understanding the ethics of a situation and not betraying their TRUST.
2007-01-11 22:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by graliv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I completely honest? Yes, of course.
But you seem to asking something different. You want to know whether it's okay to demand that your partner tell you everything, and the answer to that is no.
My wife doesn't know all my passwords, but if she asked I'd tell her because we trust one another. I don't demand to know what every phone call she makes or receives is about, it doesn't matter -- because we trust one another. (And we've been married 22 years.)
You seem to have a trust issue, If you haven't got trust then you don't have a relationship.
2007-01-11 23:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by replybysteve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 100% honest with my wife but, then again, I've got nothing to hide. My 1st marriage of 23yrs ended in divorce partly due to dishonesty on both sides so I vowed to always be honest to my new wife and sleep better at night for it.
2007-01-11 22:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hiya,
Well this is a toughie, it depends on how well you know your partner and what white lies dont matter, but never keep things that really matter to yourself, sometimes this will inflict selfharm, but you have to try and put yourself in the opposite position that you are in and think how it would affect you if what your not telling the truth about would affect you if you ever found out? hope this is of some help..xx..
2007-01-11 22:35:46 · answer #9 · answered by yessart1956 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I haven't given my boyfriend my bank account code-though we've both given each other website passwords to do something for each other on the computer. (He printed photos for me at work,I booked flights,etc.. for him as he has no home computer.)
But I am totally honest with him. I have no reason to lie to him-nor would I want to! (I'm crap at lying-always got caught!)
2007-01-11 22:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋