I hv been so confused and so sad. In this week, i like this guy in my work, but we like to tlak to each other. I want to find out that he love me? But yesterday he stands beside me and smile, he even likes to buy drinks for me. Even he doesn't told me his gonna buy it for me. Then for about today friday he doesn't tlak to that much? But somtimes he has mood to flirt with me when i looked to in his eyes. How i am going to find out is in love with me.
I been sad too sad waiting, till valentine Day is next month and i can't hv bf even one?
2007-01-11 22:10:17 · 13 answers · asked by xDi0rAngelx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't read to much into his flirting and dont rush into a physical relationship as that is likely what he will want and then you will be left alone.
2007-01-11 22:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to know if a guy likes you or not, you can make up an imaginary female friend that has the same personality & is almost exactly like you, then mention to him about 'her' and see his reaction. if he seemed very interested in her means he likes you this type of girl. or you can get your other colleagues to ask for you.
maybe a little bit cheeky & shameless but it definitely makes you feel better than struggling within your own heart am i right?
don't be too desperate for a date because it's valentine's day.
take your time and THE ONE will come along. if you rush into a relationship because of something like V'day, then it's not worth it and you may regret.
and if his reaction to you is so 'inconsistant', you should step up yourself to make the move and be closer to him as friend, like chat more, help him with his work more etc...
2007-01-12 06:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Saffron Boudoir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he would like to go out for some coffee (or soda if you don't drink coffee) There is no harm in that. If he says yes, then you know you have a foot in the door with him. If he blows you off, then chances are, he's just a flirt.
2007-01-12 06:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by †♥mslamom♥† 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more to live than boyfriends and being in love, dont wait for him he is never just gonna turn around and tell you he loves you by the way. You need to be hes friend then let the relationship develope in time. Go out and live your life dont sit around waiting for dumb boys!!
2007-01-12 06:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't jump to "love" so quick wow go on a date or two lol ask him what he's doing for valentines day or hell even tonight being friday. Don't expect him to start writing his own vows before you two even go on a date and test out a relationship.
2007-01-12 06:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also dont have a boyfriend.So what!Give the guy some breathing space.He cant entertain you all the time!Why dont you flirt with him for a change...he might like the innitaitive.
2007-01-12 06:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb he's just flirting n nothing seriously yet... but if he buys u things ( only 4u!) then he is quite interested with u... so keep observing him for a few more days.. dont rush things ok....
u'll know if he luv u or not... if possible try to get his mobile num n txt him a nice joke....
2007-01-12 06:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Shania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait for it, just give it a time. youre still young and youll surely find the best one in the future...
2007-01-12 06:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifrer C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's in love but wait 'till he ask you out, okay?
2007-01-12 06:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont be sad,you can know from his gestures if he is intrested in you or not.All the best.
2007-01-12 06:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋