2007-01-11 22:10:07 · 7 answers · asked by shabnam s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First, I'm sorry for your loss. The first thing you should do is to see a doctor for a pre-conception checkup. That will help to make sure your body is ready for trying again. I've had five miscarriages, which while not exactly the same thing, are painful, and doctors still don't know the reason for them. My mother had a stillbirth with her first child, and I was the second. There are lots of books out there about coping with the loss of a child and trying again afterward that can help emotionally. Physically, the trying part is easy, although it can be high pressure. there's a lubricant out there called pre-seed that's supposed to be sperm-friendly, and the important part to remember is just to take your time. Conception usually happens when you least expect it. Make sure to allow yourself to feel good about your next pregnancy without feeling guilty, and give yourself permission to mourn what you've lost even as you look forward to trying again. Good luck and God bless. :)
2007-01-11 22:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by Julia L. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, deepest condolences on the loss of your first baby. I belong to a chat site that 2 members are now pregnant after giving birth (around 26 weeks - one lived for 10 minutes and the other for 13 days). Both are now pregnant.
You will still have the same worries, fears etc. Totally normal. You ill probably be watched more with the upcoming pregnancy than you might think.
I wish you nothing but good luck!
2007-01-11 22:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by pouncermom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, first of all try your best to take care of your health and be emotionally strong this period of time.
Talk to your partner and give at least 6 month before you try to conceive again.In the mean time try to do some blood tests for viruses such as Rubella etc and try to get to bottom of any problems as such.Take full medication if advised.
We hope that you have a healthy baby ....Cheer up and be positive.
2007-01-12 22:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a terrible loss which you have to bear now.
For the future however be doubly careful.
One of main causes of still birth, as far as I have been able to observe is the blood sugar. Are you diabetic?
If yes, then have it controlled, before planning another baby.
It no, then be very careful to see you blood glucose level does not rise and your blood pressure is under control.
Next comes dietary regimen and mild exercise recommended by a gynaecologist. You must observe those guidelines.
God is with you.
2007-01-12 23:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to easily carry your chin up severe and tell those human beings "what's finished is finished. It happened. we gained't bypass returned in time and alter it. permit's purely circulate forward and help provide this toddler a chuffed existence with a competent kin to help him/her, particularly than stay interior the previous approximately how the new child ought to have on no account been born." i will inform you this. My mothers and dads had 5 young infants. 4 human beings have been unplanned, collectively as a million replaced into planned (my brother). all and sundry bashed my mothers and dads as properly whilst my mom replaced into pregnant at 19 with my oldest sibling, yet they controlled it. They have been given by way of each and every thing purely positive. particular they struggled interior the commencing up like each and every youthful grownup anymore, yet now they stay in a spectacular abode and are fortunately married to this very day. particular 4 human beings have been unplanned like I stated, yet over the 1st few years after my oldest sibling replaced into born human beings have been given used to the belief and have been given over it. it's going to ensue with you too i'm particular. human beings gets over it in some unspecified time interior the destiny. What are they going to do? inform you your 5 year previous new child ought to have on no account been born? inform you your 10 year previous new child ought to have on no account been born? and so on.? i do no longer think of so, and in the event that they have they have been given something heavily incorrect with them that desires to be regarded at with tips from a doctor.
2016-10-07 01:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by geddings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
salam
shoma irani hastin az kojaeed?agar betunam komaki bekonam khoshhal misham.
2007-01-13 06:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
justmommies.com has a great grief and loss support forum.
2007-01-12 03:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by barbiefreak518 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋