i don 't think this is normal cos i'm yet to have a baby for the past 7yrs now.i've not conceived and i'm scared.my period is flowing very well i saw my period last on the 29th of december to 1st of january this month and i have a very heavy flow most times.So pls can somebody help me.My relationship is on the verge of breaking down.
2007-01-11 21:22:06 · 14 answers · asked by topsy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
My first concern would be why you are trying to get pregnant in a relationship that's on the verge of breaking down. That's not the best way to keep a person with you. You would both resent each other eventually.
Work on your relationship first before trying to bring an innocent child into it.
2007-01-11 23:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by kara3967 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is this:
Try elevating your hips with a pillow or something. It opens your cervix more and it allows the guy to get in deeper. Once he finishes keep ur hips elevated and stay like this for about 20-30 min. Because your hips are elevated the sperm have no where to go but up. When you are waiting for the 20-30 min your cervix and eggs are soaking in his sperm. Find out when you are ovulating even by doing a test over the internet and have sex everyother day during ovulation. And you are bound to conceive. For you try taking folic acid pills helps us girls be more fertile and for the male try taking zinc. helps his swimmers go faster and devolop more and more. Best of luck to you
2007-01-13 19:06:52 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well are you trying to get pregnant with him?
If so, it is normal for the sperm to drop down and come out once you stand up. There is always a chance that a sperm with get to the egg, even if you stand up right away. But sometimes you aren giving the sperm enough time. You need to lay the for a few mins, just try 4 mins. Lay there after he ejaculates and put a pillow under your hips so you are elevated. This is how I got pregnant.
I have one child, and when my husband ejaculates in me any other time, I usualy stand up right afterwards, habit. You can still get pregnant either way. But my chances are better if i lay there for a few minutes.
Good Luck!
2007-01-11 21:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Momma Bear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have been trying for 7 years to get pregnant, you need to make an appointment with a RE (Reproductive Endocrinologist) You may not be ovulating as it is quite common, no ovulation = no pregnancy. I am on meds to stimulate my hormones into producing more follicles so I will ovulate. Start charting on fertilityfriend.com
2007-01-12 03:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you able to make sparkling no remember if he can no longer ejaculate or he ejculate yet there's no longer plenty/no semen? the two situations could properly be as a results of too plenty intercourse. like the others stated, ease off some days and see if issues advance.
2016-10-07 01:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by geddings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you are not supposed to stand but to lay down for some time afterwords to absorb it. At least 20 minutes
2007-01-11 21:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its normal that the sperm should drop down.but definitely some has already gone in.why nt visit a doctor
2007-01-11 21:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The laws of gravity apply even with sperm!
2007-01-11 21:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mishell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to have a better chance of getting pregnant you need to lay there for a half hour before getting up.. my other suggestion would be to go see your gynocoligist to see what the problem is and what advice she or he can give
2007-01-11 21:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by band geek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to your doctor and maybe get some fertility drugs. Maybe you should try having sex when your relaxed....I been having the same problem lately....would really like to know whats happening....
2007-01-11 21:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mareezi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋