im curently a junior in high school and i have never had agirlfreind or many close friends. I know that im shy, but thats only half the reason I don't socialize. The other reason is because I cannot keep long conversations. I can't think of many things to continue talking about. I know some people will try to answer this question with me being myself, but the point is I am myself. Please....if you can answer my question clearly it would help me and otheres alike
2007-01-11 21:16:22 · 6 answers · asked by subs r de best 4 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
You need to steer the conversation towards something you like and are interested in. That way you will have plenty to say about it. Talk about which classes you really like or really dislike. Talk about your favorite TV shows, sports, hobbies, anything that you know about, then your conversation will flow without you having to work at it so much. Be sure you read the newspaper or watch the news so you know what is going on around your area, like concerts, things that happen. It will give you more to discuss. Find people who the same things in common with you and then talking will come more easily between you.
Another thing is to ask questions and then let the other person answer. That way, they do more of the talking to start and might come up with good conversation topics. good luck!
2007-01-14 18:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by IgotwatUn33d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to steer the conversation towards something you like and are interested in. That way you will have plenty to say about it. Talk about which classes you really like or really dislike. Talk about your favorite TV shows, sports, hobbies, anything that you know about, then your conversation will flow without you having to work at it so much. Be sure you read the newspaper or watch the news so you know what is going on around your area, like concerts, things that happen. It will give you more to discuss. Find people who the same things in common with you and then talking will come more easily between you.
Another thing is to ask questions and then let the other person answer. That way, they do more of the talking to start and might come up with good conversation topics. good luck! :)
2007-01-12 05:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,I have the same exact problem but in addition of being very shy I'm not good looking so I always feel ugly and don't talk to people but when I do I don't know what to talk about
anyways I'm sorry I couldn't help but I hope other people will help us.
2007-01-12 05:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u hang out with large groups of ppl or ppl who are very talkative so u wont have to do the job ureself.
i hate talking much but dont mind or often enjoy listening to others
2007-01-12 05:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by Lara^mt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to discuss on different topics with your friends. This will increase your confidence and slowly u will be able to speak in groups...
2007-01-12 05:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by @rrsu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk, listen. A great conversationalist is attentive and encourages others to talk.
2007-01-12 20:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋