My parents r seeking a marriage proposal to me,if i talk with that guy(who came to see me), he will say, this girl is very fast i dont want, if i dont talk with them, they will say she is very silent may be she doesnt like us, finally cancel, what shall i do during that time. should i talk r not, when they comes how i dress(saree r dress).
really i fed up by serving coffe. anyone pls guide me.
2007-01-11 20:36:56 · 15 answers · asked by ani123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just behave normal, wear what you feel comfortable in, incase you don't like sari then wear a nice salwar kameez & leave the coffee serving chore to your Mom or sis or servant.You should talk but don't get chatty.
2007-01-11 20:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by Nanz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look girl, what you need is self confidence. It doesnt matter if you are silent or you talk - you be confident and poised.
Also it helps to dress not too conservatively during such ceremonies. I am not saying come wearing a bikini...:)
But just wear a blouse which shows a hint of cleavage....it shows to the 'guy' that what he will miss if he says "no" to you. :)
Seriously, BE CONFIDENT and you will be ok.
2007-01-12 04:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and give honest answers. Dress what suits you best and chose a lively colour.
Even you can admit to them that you are nervous, anyway I suppose everybody is in that delicate situation: You, the boy, your parents, his parents.... so I think it will be nothing strange.
The important thing is that you behave naturally and don´t try to be somebody you are not...
2007-01-12 09:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you most comfortable doing? How you behave in front of them when you first meet them will be how they think you will act for the rest of your marriage.
If you like talking, then talk, but talk about every day things. And if they think that you are moving too fast, they are idiots. What else would they be there for?
Talk and be yourself.
2007-01-12 04:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not care what other will think of your act. You behave properly, nicely. Everything will go smoothly at proper time.
2007-01-12 04:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by agni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi anil123 dont be vorid when they come to u r hom wher a sarri talk gently by asking about his studys or offic works then start your conversation
2007-01-12 05:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by satish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I urge you to be your natural self, if you put on an act now, are you prepared to carry on acting throughout your married life?
2007-01-12 04:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
behave naturally....be neat n well dressed...talk slowly or adjust according to the way the guy speaks...gud luck
2007-01-12 04:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by elvisjohn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LIKE IT. I AM MARRIED OTHERWISE I HAVE SENT YOU THE PROPOSAL. BE CAUSAL AND REMAIN IN SIMPLE AND GOOD STITCHED CLOTHES. TALK WHEN IT IS REQUIRED OR THEY HAVE ASKED QUESTION. REPLY IN MINIMUM WORDS. NEVER EXPLAIN THE THINGS WILL HELP YOU EARLY MARRIAGE. WISH YOU BEST.
2007-01-15 07:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act as u are, dress in a way which u look good at.
all the best
2007-01-12 05:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by lovely g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋