2007-01-11 20:29:03 · 36 answers · asked by ANOUSHA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think if a women enjoys being a mistress rather than a wife, they probably have self-esteem and various type of psychological issues.
2007-01-11 20:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by Andy 3 · 13⤊ 3⤋
Being a mistress is perhaps more fun, but brings countless heartache to all involved. Imagine if you were the wife, and your husband had a mistress. Would you think she was having fun then, or just a home wrecker? Besides, being a wife can be fun too, it is what you put into ANY relationship that makes it fun or not, not what you are in the scenario ! A wife can also be a mistress to her husband. You know the saying : A wife in the kitchen, but a w h o r e in the bedroom? Well, it works!
Besides, most mistress never become wives. Do you want to spend the rest of your life watching your man go home to another family?
In my opinion, women who have affairs with married men have low morals and low self respect. Do yourself a favour and don't think of it as fun, think of it as disgraceful!
2007-01-11 20:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being a mistress most probably is more fun the being committed to a marriage but then what about the rest of it like being in love having kids etc you can still have fun being married you just have to find the right person for your needs
2007-01-11 20:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by greek_angel_girl 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
my view is that a mistress knows what she wants and gets it which is what i need as long as we are looking for the same thing a wife is a partner in life that a husband should make a home a house a gang of kids a family and a man a loving husband without anyone know that she did it (most underrated job in the world if you ask me )
2007-01-11 20:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by k dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right word for being a mistress is refer ed to as adultery and fornication. As the bible said stolen water is sweet but after wards your mouth will be filled with gravel. The fun will disappear when your heart begin to ache and yearn for more because when you will need him most he will not be there. No matter how long he stays with you it is still temporary because he will always return to the wife. Settling for mistress is the haven of loosers. Winners always go for the kill by having him all.
2007-01-11 20:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by Thresingfloor 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I Love the 'idea' of it, but am torn with the moral dilemma of the poor other woman. I don't want to be the cause of her pain if she found us out. Ironically, the most available men I know are MARRIED. Poor slobs. They shouldn't have said 'I Do' if "They Don't."
Why would you encourage someone to do the wrong thing? I always tell my friends I'd get married if he'd just live across the street in another house so we could have our own space but share the fun of being a couple when we feel like it. I think I would get so tired of having someone else in my home 24/7, I'd not be able to have the solitude I crave.
Ultimately, I don't date married guys because I don't want the karma of trying to be happy at the expense of another. There. Lecture over.
Good luck ...
2007-01-11 20:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the worse part of that fun is that u help stupid men get away with playing u and his wife. u dont fool anybody cos u n the wife are loosing all thanx to u. u can have a relationship with some one without a commitment and that is far better than giving some man the pleasure of hopping from one to the other.
dont forget however that the wife will b there when he's through with "cheating"
2007-01-11 20:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by Naughty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that there are two different situations.. the wife`s and the mistress`. there are pros and cons like in anything in our life.. but it`s more fun to be a wife when you get along with your husband.. but if you are a wife that`s been cheaten it`s really sad. i have an etic thing .. i couldn`t meet married guys.. first of all why should i share my man with another woman and secondly how would i feel if i stole somebody else`s husband... different ways of seeing a situation.. just different ways and the idea is that you have to find your own man, stick to him and stay with him. how would you feel if you were cheated by your husbad?
2007-01-11 20:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by Dora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my view a mistress cannot earn enough love & respect from the man. She is only meant to satisfy the man sexually. She do not stand any where in the society & she do not have any legal rights on the man.
2007-01-11 21:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes at first u will be happy, he will give u everything, pretend to love u, he may even dump his wife for u, but as soon as u start expecting things he doesn't want to give u, and making demands, he will treat u just like he did his wife. you thought u were better than the wife, that she was the one who ruined the marriage, and u would be the one to show him how it was like to be with a real woman, but after awhile it won't be any different, he will do the same thing to u. yes it is fun for awhile, sneaking around on the wife, maybe even showing up where the wife is, just to show her u have won, but in the end karma will come after u with a vengeance and what u have done to the wife, will come back and visit your life.
2007-01-12 00:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that same what u have asked in question Being a mistress is more fun than being a wife....
2007-01-11 20:40:07 · answer #11 · answered by ajay j 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋