this is kinda hard 2 say, buh i need 2 no. i realise im impure now, some guy who i do not know raped me, and i dont know how to feel. if that makes sence. a lil inside help? yes the police know. oh and my previous question about the poem, its dedicated 2 my ex best friend.
2007-01-11 20:11:23 · 25 answers · asked by supastr_inc 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
no ur not... i'm sorry 2 say if you go with the traditional defination of virginity your not. But it does not make you impure...
2007-01-11 20:15:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You're no longer a virgin, but don't put any negativity on yourself by labels like "impure", I think that's really stupid. Of course you feel violated and filthy right now but you are not less of a woman because of this. My girlfriend was raped but that didn't change the way I looked at her. Get over the idea that being a virgin is being pure, and a non-virgin is impure, you are pure if your heart is good. Do not judge others, do not judge yourself either. Are you telling me that if you meet a girl that has been raped or is no longer a virgin you'll label her "impure" as well? You've been a victim of false morality. Snap out of it.
2007-01-12 04:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by charlie c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You most definately ARE a virgin. Girls can even be born without hymens, or tear them in sports. Because you were ASSAULTED does NOT mean you are not a virgin. You are as pure as any woman untouched. You have been violated and have been a victim of the worst crime imaginable. In my eyes, you are as pure as a newborn baby. Virginity cannot be taken away, it has to be given freely! Don't let anyone tell you that you are impure or dirty or used. You are the exact opposite! I'm so sorry dear, it's horrible to have those thoughts run through your head. You are most definately a virgin in every sense of the matter.
2007-01-12 15:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Technically you're not. But it's what you feel inside your head that matters. Look at it like this - You haven't willingly given yourself to someone so your intentions were honourable and pure.
I would treat any g/f of mine in similar circumstances as still being a virgin and any guy you meet who's worth having will do the same.
2007-01-12 04:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, unfortunately you are no longer a virgin. But it doesn't really matter, because it was only a physical thing. You did not give him your heart. You are still a virgin in your heart, because you haven't shared your whole soul with a man yet. You're not impure. It's not your fault. You could call a helpline that deals with sexual assault. I think you may need counselling about this. I feel very sad that this happened to you.
2007-01-12 04:16:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
yes once intercuorse is happend thn u are not virgin
but u need not to worry
its was forced up on
so think that you are virgin in ur mind
also get punish for him
keep not thinking about that incident
try to hav a good relationship with a guy who can accept you
all the best
take care
2007-01-12 04:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by lin d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a pure angel and don't forget it! You are not a virgin, you're you, with your experiences, however painful, but you're you. And because of your experiences, you are now equipped to understand someone else's pain better than you were ever able to before. You will draw from this experience for the rest of your life, and it will actually be a positive some day!
Now, though you're not physically a virgin, you are a virgin in your heart, so save it for someone you love and who will have the love and patience you'll need. Much love to you. Bless you, Strong Girl.
2007-01-12 04:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by itry007 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would have to say that no you are not a virgin. It is sad to say that your virginity can be taken from you. On that note...how is it that the Virgin Mary is a virgin and would that be rape? Just a thought...so shoot me!(Oh Man...I'm sure somebody is gonna be pissed about that!)
2007-01-12 04:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by gwendalynnfuchs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would still consider you a virgin.
Losing your virginity implies that you had intent to do so. Though your body has been penetrated, you did not intend for it to happen, therefore you are a virgin.
2007-01-12 04:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by Iris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say it's good if you aren't falling apart about a thing like that happening to you, stay positive and send him to jail if you get th chance. And the answer is you wouldn't still be a virgin but don't let it get you down, what ha[[ened is not your fault.
2007-01-12 04:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mirowera 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋